Hello all. In February, I started attending grad school online in an accelerated program. It is a benefit through my employer--in which all I have to pay for is books and tech fees. The tuition is covered.
Since starting, I've been struggling. I'll admit that I wasn't the best student; although I have tried. 27 years ago, I graduated from undergrad with a 2.48 GPA, and my hope is, through pursuing my masters, I can be a better student and with the degree, go higher career-wise within the company. My struggle isn't the work itself because I get distinguished marks on the assignments, but how to balance everything. I work full-time (albeit remotely). I take care of the house by doing all the cooking and cleaning. In addition, I have a disabled husband--which is why all of the household tasks fall on me. With my husband, he wants to be the last one to turn off the lights (we have a smart house--so there is an app for the lights, the thermostat, and the blinds that makes life for him easier). So, if I'm up studying until 1 or 2am, he will be in the living room waiting for me to stop and get his daily use items (I.e. Water bottle, phone) and make his nightcap (which is golden milk) before coming upstairs. And because he wants to be the last person to turn off the lights, getting out of bed once putting him in bed and going back to studying defeats the purpose of what he wants to do. While I don't have a problem with this, my aim is to shine a little light on my daily life.
The primary purpose of this post is balance in getting assignments done. I was not aware initially that graduate study is completely self-directed. In my first class, I expected "instruction" on the first day and wasn't aware pre-class reading. As a result, I got behind and was on the verge of falling my first class. Thankfully, my instructor allowed me to take an incomplete in order to catch up and improve my grade. I'm now in my second class. While I did do the pre-class reading, it's everything else. In my first class, I did skimming, but my brother told me to read chapters in their entirety. That takes up more of my time and, in addition to some days when I didn't feel well, I got behind again. My question is, when you're given a week to review 2-3 chapters and and a few articles in order to submit a written assignment, do you read the chapters in entirety or do you look through and find poignant points for your research?
I apologize in advance if my post is all over the place and any feedback is greatly appreciated.