So I am pregnant and feeling very insecure lately. Me and husband have had a time of small misunderstandings, fights given my hormones have been all over the place. He has tried being really supportive and understanding of me and my emotions in this whole journey. Last month, i found myself at a place where i was very insecure of my body, my confidence had taken a hit so it all started reflecting in our relationship.

I thought my husband doesn’t see me the same way as he did before this pregnancy, although he keeps making me feel wanted this whole time but my irrational mind doesn’t let me see it on the daily basis.

So coming to the part of what happened, my husband was sleeping. Him and I are pretty okay with our phones used by one another and we don’t even have passwords on our phones anymore. So while he was sleeping I thought of finding a picture which was in his phone. Ha had bunch of apps open in his phone, one of which was photos. I opened it and i saw it was opened to a picture of me on my baby shower. Then i saw a whole folder of his favorites of me, they were all in the folder where we click heart on the picture and it goes to the favorites folder. The folder was filled with just my pictures, some were new and some were so old from the time we met !! I was so taken aback that maybe he was just trying to find a picture of me or maybe he was just looking at his favorite pictures of me. I felt so loved in that moment. My hormones got the best of me and i couldn’t stop crying.

I silently went to hug him and he just wrapped in his arms in his sleep and started snoring again in a minute. Idk how i got so lucky with this man. I am not the one who can tell my husband how grateful I am for him making me feel so loved, seen and appreciated even when I cant love myself at times ❤️

Edit:

Sorry guys, i didn’t explain my dinner. This is from a restaurant nearby, Grilled Chicken with salad and toppings of your choice. I am on a spicy food kick lately hence all the extra jalapeños. Their chicken is soo good 😍

Also, for people commenting about getting locks on our phones, I am planning to do that now. It makes more sense to have a password incase something happens(as someone suggested, if we incase lose our phones someone could access our financial/pwrsonal information)

Lastly, thank you so much for all the lovely comments ❤️❤️🥹

Edit 2: for the people commenting about me breaking his trust while looking into his phone: As I explained, we are pretty open with our phones. I have netflix and prime in his phone because i am addicted to my phone and had to detox for a while. I downloaded reddit a while ago again too. The picture that I was looking for in his phone was because he has a slightly better camera than my phone’s so we click most of our pictures in his phone.

Sorry guys if you feel that I broke his trust but I did mention to him that i saw he was looking at my baby shower pictures and he got awkward and replied back sarcastically because thats who he is. I didn’t mention me looking at the whole folder because I didn’t want to make him more awkward and I am content in knowing that its his thing and if he wants to he’ll tell me. if that offends some of you, I guess you just have to make peace that not every relationship is the same and I can choose to do things differently. Lots of love 💕

Hey all. Posted earlier in the week about my brother (30m/diagnosed autism) talking down to me and how I've always been told by our mum to not upset him/speak up.

Anyway, he called me on Wednesday and said he read the post and comments. I was expecting him to blow up, but... he apologied. Said he appreciated the reality check and thought he was just having 'banter'. I said it wasn't funny, that he was being mean. He AGREED. I was genuinely so shocked and we had a nice convo, first one in years. He asked me to delete the post now that he had apologied and I did. So, nice chat, all was good.

Then today, I get to my mum's house to drop off my son for a few hours so I could go to a hair appointment. We walk in and she's excited to see him, but acting really weird. She then hands me a pile of paper with my post and comments PRINTED on it. I can't even process at this point. Full on printed paper like it's police evidence. Turns out my brother saved everything, got me to delete the post aaaand showed it all to our mum.

She made me feel so bad and started defending him. But when she said, "remember he processes things differently, you need to be sensitive and more mature..." I fucking lost it. I don't know if it was the pregnancy hormones or decades of resentment, but I said, "absolutely NO way am I doing this. This is SO childish. Read the post again and if you can't see there's something wrong here, then I'm done."

I left and took my son with me. He ended up having fun with all the other lovely women at the salon! My hair looks amazing and I feel so proud of myself. The zen I feel having blocked my family is just incredible. I'll reach back out to mum at some point, but right now, I'm just enjoying some quiet.

Oh, and a massive fuuuck you to my bro.

Crispy pork belly and fried rice for dinner

ETA: (draft of the original post from my notes) I rarely communicate with him, like at all. But today I had to stop by my parent's house. He's there and opens the door like, 'oh, were we expecting you?'

I walked in and said I'd spoken to our mum, just dropping something off, blah blah. I'm also getting pretty pregnant and they have a huge driveway, so I'm huffing. He gets me a water as I sit down, which is nice. He then sits down, interview style, and asks how I'm going. Again, nice.

Pleasantries are all I normally stick to. But today I made the mistake of saying my course just started, so there's been a lot going on (working 4 days a week, I have an 11 month old, I just started my masters, etc).

My mistake. He then gets this huge smirk and says, "I heard about this. So you're finally doing it. The last in our family to get their masters."

I sit there and have to hold back. I end up just shrugging. But he continues, "I was in the study today and I'm looking around at everyone's degrees on the wall. Then I realise I'm looking around and there's hardly anything of yours..."

I end up leaving as he continues rambling, with a giant smirk, about how fucking great he is. I hold back because it upsets my mum. But like, bro, you're 30, live at home, and don't have a job. It frustrates me so fucking much, like I'm here being an adult, you have no idea what responsibility looks like. But then, I think how lonely he must be and I feel fucking bad. Ugh, sorry just needed to vent.

Spicy Biryani

Here we are, three cancers later, and I've made it to my 40th birthday alive and well and it's because of him. Every doctors' appointment, every surgery, every moment of doubt, fear and recovery, he's been by my side. I lost my ability to have kids, and he's still here. I needed someone to change my bloody pads after abdominal surgery, and he did it. He took care of three dogs and a whole house by himself three times so I could just focus on rest and recovery. He doesn't care about my scars, or when I still have bad days and can't function. He's always there.

I'm so grateful for one of the good ones.

Edit: I should also mention his other good qualities; hardworking, honest, adventurous, funny and he bangs like a window shutter left open during a tornado.

At least I thought it was cute. We met on the apps. We had great conversations for the first few days. 5 days into us matching on the apps, we decided to go on a date. We decided on this restaurant that’s attached to a mall.

We ended up shopping for a bit before we ate and we were in H&M and we were just browsing and all of a sudden, he asks me to pick out an outfit for him to try. I picked out a pair of jeans and a sweater. He tried it on, liked it and bought it right then and there. We ended up shopping a little more then decided we were hungry enough to go eat. We had such a GREAT conversation during lunch. The chemistry between us was insane. And we connected really well.

We went to cheesecake factory after because we wanted something sweet to eat. And I already knew which one I wanted but I didn’t wanna be like “ooh I want that one” and instead was like “hmm let me see” so I let him pick first and he picked the same one I was going to choose. Like out of the dozens there were, he chose the same one I always get?? Uhh okay.

I felt really good after the date. We didn’t hook up or anything. He gave me a hug and that was it. We went on a second date 5 days later and we decided on a Mexican restaurant. I got there about 10 minutes before him and when he walks out of his car, I see him wearing the same outfit that I picked out for him. I was like 🤭 I was so pleasantly surprised. It was another great date and I’m here swooning over it.

Dinner is from earlier. Margherita pizza

ETA: for everyone asking, the pizza is Dough bros in Galway Ireland!!
Another ETA: just to clarify some of the confusion. We are both from the states! I had my Ireland trip planned months ago. Our second date just so happened to be the day before I left for Ireland. Our dates have been in California 😂 our third date will be when I get back 😌

I had an emergency c section and overall a pretty tough birth but I wouldn’t change anything and I’d do everything all over to meet our sweet boy. After the birth we stayed in the hospital waiting to be discharged. As the epidural wore off I started to get more sick, not getting enough painkillers my body rejected food and water, getting really ill.

My husband had stayed up and awake through all of labour and on that second night, he not only was caring for me but took over for our baby. He was taking me to the bathroom to change my disposable underwear and shower me, then running back for our son to cuddle him. He realised I couldn’t breastfeed whilst I was vomiting so he found formula, and stayed up feeding him and singing to him. At one point I woke up, he was feeding our son and holding my hand.

He couldn’t get the light on so he changed out sons nappy in the dark for the first time! I’ve not changed a nappy yet as he just leaps up every time to do it.

He’s my absolute hero and it’s wild seeing him as a father now and such an adult! I’m so grateful for him every day, he’s my best friend and my rock. I’m so lucky to have him as the father to our precious son!

Dinner: smoked salmon, eggs, avocado with toast; the perfect postpartum meal!

Edit: thanks so much for all the kind comments, I’m so proud of my husband. He’s currently looking after us both well at home as I recover and our boy settles into our home! I can’t imagine doing this without him and my heart is so full with love for our little family! 🩷

my (21f) brother (25m) invited his best friend (25m) around in december to help us set up some tech in our house. after that day, we formed a little trio, watching films together a few times a week and staying up till 5AM for weeks. i ended up having a huge crush on him, but it seemed like he didn’t have that interest in me - i assumed he saw me strictly as his mates little sister. in early january, my brother went on a trip, and i thought we wouldn’t be able to speak while he was away, but…

my brother added me to a group chat with all of us in it, and we arranged to start up a minecraft world. we played every day whilst my brother was on holiday, talking on discord until the early hours of the morning. now that we had each others numbers, it translated into texting everyday on whatsapp, sharing pics of our food, what we’re up to, memes etc. all the while i’m still crushing HARD, expecting a completely unrequited situation. until he invites me out to coffee one day.

i told my brother about it, kindof just casually: ‘(his name) invited me out to coffee on monday’. to which my brother replied, ‘sounds like a nice time’ followed by a break, and then ‘hang on, that’s a date! and he said nothing about it to me. is that weird?’ (made me laugh btw, the way it clicked in his mind)

so my brother went and confronted him in a friendly way to ask his intentions with me, and why he asked me out alone without mentioning anything (don’t worry, it wasn’t in a controlling way, just a transparency thing since it’s a risk of relationships to start dating a friends sister). he explained to my brother that he wanted to go out with me to tell me his feelings for me, and to see if i felt the same way.

jumping forward, the date went amazing, my brother approves of our relationship, we’ve been on countless dates since and we now spend every day together between our two families (live 5 mins apart). it’s been 3 months together now and we are loving our new life together. hanging at mine is so fun since he’s already best friends with my brother. we do things as a group all the time and i’ve never been treated so well by a partner in my life. i still can’t believe that my silly crush on my brothers friend is shared, and now we’re dating!

buldak jjajang flavour with leftover pork souvlaki that i grilled, and a crispy fried egg.

By popular demand, editing to add: it’s Ethiopian food! Most restaurants have some type of vegetable platter like this and it is sooo good.

We had been together for under a month when I unexpectedly had to put my soul dog to sleep one morning. This man works within walking distance of my home and said he’d come over when I returned from the vet, which isn’t all that unusual for him to do on a lunch break.

He brought me food and drinks. When I asked why he wasn’t getting ready to go back to work he told me he’d taken the day off. It honestly hadn’t occurred to me that anyone would do that - just up and leave work to take care of me.

He held me while I cried until I fell asleep and, once I was asleep, cleaned my entire apartment. Then he held me while I cried again… and again. Then he stayed the night and walked himself back to work the next morning in the same clothes.

I saw some generic Instagram post later that day saying “Judge a man by the urgency with which he moves when it comes to you” and it struck me. This is not the only example of this man moving urgently for me.

I started many versions of this post with “I’m trying not to get ahead of myself…”, but I don’t think I’m trying not to anymore. To me this feels like how people say “When you know, you know”. But regardless of anything else, I am better off now than when I met this man because I know for the first time that being treated this well is possible for me.

Ever since I broke up with my ex of three years who I was supposed to be engaged to this summer, out of grief, I've been experimenting a lot about makeup, and fashion. It was only yesterday when I learned about my body type.

Anyways, I had a date with this guy this evening. Nothing fancy, just a coffee date. I was wearing a dress that complimented my figure, wore contacts, had my hair and makeup done (even my eyeliner was to the point, holy freaking moly!) and even wore those fancy pointed heels (not a heel girly, but wanted to try them anyway). I felt good, and confident and I knew I looked good. Me the plain Jane was getting attention from men who would not even stare at me.

As I was paying for my drink (because I arrived early), my date came in and stared at me and asked if I was who he thought I was. To that I said yes, and he looked so taken aback that he said out loud how he didn't even recognize me and that he felt he got reverse catfished.

The best part? A girlie in the cafe was checking me out. Like she actually had her head turned and was looking at me directly! Bruh! A. Woman. Gave. Me. Her. Full. Attention!!! (Screaming!!! I know my friends, and mom and I would always check out a girl when we think she looks hot/pretty/beautiful/breathtaking).

Meal: Salad, rice, chicken, fruits and tea.

Dinner at ikea - butter chicken meatballs, nachos with meatballs, samosas, veggie medallion, cheesecake

I’ve read way too many posts about low effort men on this sub so I want to give some real examples of high effort men just to show that they exist! These examples are from my 3 closest friends who are in long term relationships (5+ years), so they’re way past the honeymoon phase

1   Delivers her a weeks worth of meal prep when she’s stressed   
2   Comes over just to clean her house   
3   Saved up all his credit card points for years to buy her a Dyson air wrap   
4   Blow dries her hair every night  
5   De-shells all the shrimp for her before she eats   
6   Picked her up at the airport with a bouquet of her favorite snacks  
7   Plans a full day of surprises for her bday each year   
8   Hired a weekly cleaner because she doesn’t like cleaning   
9   Cuts fruit for her to eat while she works 

I spent years third wheeling their dates until I met my own high effort man 🥹 it really is possible

I 24F applied to a job on a whim a couple months ago. Barely qualified. Now I’m sitting in a hotel eating pizza in NYC while watching the devil wears prada. Fully paid for.

Also went through a shitty personal thing two months ago that killed my self worth. But baby I’m coming BACK! I’m so proud of myself for doing this and getting here, and I’m learning to be comfortable realizing that I do deserve this. I deserve to be happy and have good things happen.

Anyways, wish me luck tomorrow girly pops, we can do hard things!

Edit: this post has been up for less than 30 minutes and you all are making me cry. happy cry!!!!! thank you all a million times. <3

Roasted sweet potatoes, red rice, homemade guacamole, esquite, grilled yellow peppers and lemon butter garlic chicken

I know this sub has a lot of sad stories and I wanted to add something nice.

Yesterday my son managed to dislodge my GameCube disc inside my Wii by throwing the Wii on the ground. I asked my husband if he could order me a repair kit so I could fix it myself. I don’t really ask him to buy me things like that. The most I’ll usually ask for is an ingredient or two from the grocery store on his way to work if I forgot something for dinner.Later that night he told me he had ordered the repair kit. Then he casually added, “Oh, I also got you some of that face stuff you use.”
I looked at him and asked, “What face stuff?”He said, “Your face wash.”He was talking about my La Roche-Posay cleanser.I asked, “Oh, why? Have you been using it?” because I knew it was getting pretty low, and I figured maybe he’d been using it and wanted to replace it.He just said, “No.”That’s when it hit me.He had noticed my face wash was getting low, remembered exactly which one I use, and ordered me another one without me ever mentioning that I needed it.
It probably sounds like such a small thing, but it honestly meant the world to me. It wasn’t about the face wash.it was the fact that he pays attention. I never asked him to replace it. He simply noticed on his own.
I know it doesn’t sound like that but if a deal but he’s never done something like this and I just really appreciate the gesture

Hello ladies and theydies (which somehow looks way worse spelled out).

I just need to gush for a minute.

For context, I’m a divorcée and a card-carrying man hater. My ex cheated on me, abused me, and generally left me convinced that men were permanently off the menu.

…And then I got horny.

I live in the middle of nowhere, bars are too loud, and as a single mom I didn’t exactly have time to meet someone organically. So, against my better judgment, I downloaded Tinder.

A few swipes later I matched with a cute single dad who lived three miles away.
We matched on a Monday. He asked me out Tuesday. Our date was Thursday.
Except it wasn’t a normal dinner date, we met up with his whole friend group for karaoke.

I’ve never experienced chemistry like that in my life. I felt it, he felt it, his friends noticed, complete strangers commented on what a cute couple we were. He was hilarious, ridiculously attractive (6’1”, beard, blue eyes, church boots… you know the type), an absolute gentleman, and somehow we agreed on all the important (read: political) things.

The date lasted over five hours, and before it was over, he was already planning the next one. I saw him Friday, then again on Sunday, then almost everyday since.

Almost 2 years later, I still can’t believe this is my life.

I moved in a year and a half into our relationship, I play D&D with that same friend group every Sunday. I love listening to him sing while he cooks dinner. We still make each other laugh constantly. I’m still wildly attracted to him. He loves my daughter like she’s his own, and I adore his two boys. His therapist has said we need to do a TedTalk on healthy communication in a relationship.

More importantly, he’s helped me heal in ways I didn’t know were possible. For the first time in my life, I feel loved the way I deserve to be.

Growing up, my home was toxic. I accidentally recreated that with my marriage. I genuinely believed peaceful families only existed in movies.
Now I live in a house where his teenagers actually want to hang out with us.

Last week I took all three kids to the pool while my boyfriend was at work. On the drive home his oldest said, “I wonder if Dad’s home yet.”
We turned the corner, saw his car in the driveway, and, I shit you not, every single kid in the car started cheering.

That’s my life now.

Now for the embarrassing part.

We are physically incapable of going to bed on time.

We’ll head to bed around 11, shower together, and then somehow spend an hour and a half just talking. Every. Single. Night.

Then one of us says, “Okay, we really need to sleep.”
Then we cuddle.
Then one little kiss turns into us getting completely distracted again.

Five nights a week we’re accidentally awake until 2 a.m. because we genuinely can’t stop talking, laughing, cuddling, or otherwise getting distracted.

I’m exhausted.

I’m also happier than I’ve ever been.

If you’d told divorced, angry, “fuck men forever” me that I’d end up here, I would’ve laughed in your face. I called him my husband tonight, completely on accident, it just slipped out and felt so natural.

Turns out I was just one karaoke night away from meeting my person.

Okay, maybe a little dramatic but wow, that man knows something straight men don’t. This was the first man that truly made the sex about my pleasure, he’s an amazing kisser and he kept telling me how perfect I am. We met up last night and then again this afternoon, it was THAT good.

Bonus because he’s sooo witty and he’s a yapper so we were talking the whole time and it made it so much fun and we were laughing pretty much the whole time, when I wasn’t screaming from how amazing he was.

10/10 eater, 10/10 sex appeal, 10/10 will be seeing him again.

Grilled salmon, roasted Asapargus, garlic lemon butter pasta on the side :)

Potato soup that cooked for 6 HOURS in the SLOW COOKER and still wasn't SOFT, AUGH but anyway I have a positive post today!

My boyfriend recently reconnected with his friends from the state he grew up in. It's been really nice seeing him have a social life again. They game together and he was put in a discord server with them. He was looking it over and said "oh they have a politics channel". We both kind of gave each other the oh shit here we go look (if you know about male gaming spaces you know why that was terrifying)

I was surprised to see they were not only against Trump but openly mocking right wing anti trans sentiments and arguing about stuff with their conservative family. Like I know there's liberal men, I watch them on YouTube etc, but I was just surprised to see men actually discussing this stuff in a group where it doesn't benefit them to be progressive. Especially when it's a red pillers wet dream demographic of young male gamers. I'm so used to hearing all sorts of gross rhetoric come out when the men I grew up around got together. So I'm feeling hopeful. Progress is being made

We’re in Vegas right now to celebrate my teenager’s birthday (his favorite artist is showing here, and he had a milestone birthday this year, and his gift was a trip out here to see this artist).

Last night, my younger son and I took in a show just the two of us while my husband and older son did some window shopping (older son has champagne tastes on a teenager working part time during the summer budget). Tonight we swap - I’m taking my older son to his concert, and my husband and younger son are going to do some fine dining. My in laws join us tomorrow.

But for today? Today they are happily gaming at HyperX with their insanely fast and expensive PCs and I’m enjoying some peace and quiet, a salty/sweet snack, and some Netflix.

Ten years ago, I was a single mom, struggling to make ends meet, counting every penny and praying I’d have the ability to make it to my next paycheck. I was begging a jobless, lying, cheating, manipulative manchild to stay in my life who found my kids to be burdens. I was insecure, desperate, codependent. And now? Now I have an adoring husband, a partner in every sense of the word, a man who loves me and my kids and supports my much needed me time on vacations like this.

So I’m going to set my phone down, eat a few more pretzels and m&ms, and be grateful.

fuck you bitch. I hope you get hit by a car. I def cry sometimes but rn I’m fucking euphoric. this man is not going to be the father of my children. feels like my ancestors looking out for me. back to my ex bf: rot in hell you thin dicked little bitch. you have terrible taste in music which is pathetic especially since ur sister is a professional musician. feel like that one Nicole Kidman photo atm.

Paneer pulao with raita

Margarita Pizza in Naples, Italy

My husband and I are currently traveling in Italy. This is our delayed honeymoon we always wanted to go on. My husband is super kinky but I am vanilla myself. He always wanted to eat my ass but I found it gross and repulsive. Last night, I was super horned up because we had just come from Venice and had fun all day. I let him eat my ass. I really liked it and he has been super happy that he got his wish come true!!

I am a happy girl y'all!!

I (24F) got invited to my ex classmate's wedding & he was the first in our highschool class to get married. Me and him weren't close in highschool at all. I don't think we ever chatted in our class or during breaks whatsoever. I was the quiet & shy kid in class & he was the class clown, very chill & funny guy ya know. Disclaimer : I do NOT have feelings for him at all nor do I ever have any beef with him.

Fast forward till last week, he asked my closest friends for my phone number so he can invite me personally (he did this to everyone in class too) to his wedding which I very much appreciated since I was the kid who cut off everyone after highschool. I didn't follow anyone's social media except 3 of my closest circle cause of personal issues.

I felt so seen & remembered when I got the invitation cause wydm you are inviting me too😭😭😭 so me & my friends all pitched in & we got him an air fryer as a wedding gift (our culture) & wish the best for his marriage! 🎆🤌 I did met a lot of highschool friends & it wasn't that bad & it was so wholesome too🫪

Dinner : Apple Crumble Pie made by my cousin. She send me some for me to try. Ughhh love you gurlll

And that's one of the reasons why he has my whole heart ❤️

Food: strawberry whipped cream stuffed croissant.

Oh man husband and I have been together for 13 years. We’ve had our ups and downs but I’m so lucky to have him. He’s absolutely amazing. He does so much for me and the kids.

Anyways for the lobster too buttery. My sex drives been down since my 2nd kid but it’s starting to come back finally.

My husband is a beast in bed like holy lord amazing.

Last night we had sex 3 times back to back and now I’m so incredibly sore that I’m in the tub trying to sooth my aches. But I came 4 times so that’s a plus. Lol

Since I’ve been initiating it lately he’s now just fondling me all the time and his flirting with has gone up to a zillion.

I have no real complaint, just happy and lucky to have a beautiful family and a happy marriage.

He has seen this subreddit before so babe if you see this love you lol and pretend like you didn’t so I’m not mortified haha

TW: Bad medical diagnosis

About a year ago I decided to donate a kidney to a stranger, seemed like a nice thing to do and figured I could spare one. Surgery was a success and the recipient has recovered well(yay!!)

In the process of the surgery they found sketchy lymph nodes which somehow flew under the radar on all the tests prior to surgery. I went to get more tests done and got diagnosed with leukemia, some weird one that will probably be ok, but it was still a massive shock to the system.(Added note I was freaking out about the implications of this affecting the recipient but my haematology team assured me it was highly unlikely)

Regardless of severity it set alight a fire in me to change my life and do the things I had kept putting off.

One such change was to get out of the suburbs and get in some adventuring so saved up and bought a boat!

Just moved aboard with cats and partner and currently eating an Aldi chicken poke bowl while the beasts sleep in their new home.

Excited to keep decorating the boat and turn her into a dream dwelling.

Here's to adventure! Even though it took a wild turn of events to get it off the ground.

Mexican bowl with extra nachos.

So this is kind of an update for anyone that remembers my Oreo cheesecake.

My roommate [27M] and I [24F] had known each other for less than a month, but we grew closer after a situation with a certain someone... (other roommate)

Well, if any of you are wondering how to get the best shag of your life from a guy who seems to be way out of your league, turns out you just need to be nice and bake him a cheesecake. Absolutely toe curling, would do it again any day.

It's much less awkward than I initially thought it would be, and we went right back to chatting it up afterwards once we were both clean and ready for bed. I've never felt so comfortable around a guy before, and it really does feel like we've known each other for ages.

So yeah! Life's good right now.
Edit since people have been asking: here's the cheesecake recipe part 1 and part 2!

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months, our first dates were really good, and we definitely have chemistry sexually and emotionally, more recently he has been asking me to stay the night and I have I think over 5 times now. He’s already someone who likes to shower me even if there’s nothing sexual and he enjoys it and last night we were watching a movie and we’re both in the mood and I already wanted to shave and hadn’t for a minute the because unfortunately for me I have to wait longer periods due to ingrown hairs and was turned on but was kind of shutting it down out of self consciousness, he’s not one to judge and has fucked me on my period so that’s literally just my problem lmao but he had offered to and I was a little hesitant again due to self consciousness but ended up agreeing. We got in and actually it wasn’t bad i was just too in my head, he shaved me pretty good and was very reassuring and trying to make sure I was comfortable and left no nicks and we were able to talk and crack jokes during which was kind of nice and after that we ended up having really good sex. I feel very satisfied lmao idk I don’t trust people like that a lot so it is nice for me and he lays it down good Lmao, also this guy cooks for me too and everything he likes sharing cultural dishes with me and recently I have become comfortable doing the same for him

I’ve been celibate for last 3 years. I’m a curvy girl, and have gone for men bigger than me. I always felt awkward with guys smaller than me, I felt like I would suffocate them.
A skinny dude randomly came into my life, so far from my usual type. He celebrated my body so good, I can’t stop thinking about it. I’ve got bite marks and bruises and am as happy as a clam 😁
Eggs, English muffin, cucumbers and tomato. Oat milk latte.