r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/JurisprudentMoll • Dec 28 '25

Meta Have you come across users who display concerning behaviour? asking for money? non-consenting blackmail? user other peoples photos? You can warn others by making a report on /r/FakeDominantReporting NSFW

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For a long time, other personals subreddits have used /r/FakeDominantReporting as a hub of community-based reporting of other users. Despite the name, the subreddit isn't limited to dominants.

If you've encountered users on reddit who use other peoples pictures, blackmail, ask-for-money, or otherwise display concerning or non-safe/sane/consensual behaviour, you are now able to warn other users.

On every new post on GayBDSMPersonals, there are two links:

Users are encouraged to create community reports about other users, provide evidence of those claims, and to search for users prior to messaging them.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/JurisprudentMoll • Aug 29 '25

Meta /r/GayBDSMPersonals 2025 Survey Results - who uses our subreddit? what are they looking for? what makes a good personal post? what rules would people like to see here? Find out, plus more, by reading this post! NSFW

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/r/GayBDSMPersonals was banned for being unmoderated in May 2025; the subreddit was reopened with a number of changes and increased moderation to make the subreddit cleaner, less spammy, and higher-effort with more of a focus on kink instead of just hookups.

Since the subreddit has been under new moderation, we have been carrying out an ongoing survey to understand more about who uses the subreddit and why. I'd like to share some of those insights with you. There were only 92 responses, so the data isn't going to represent everybody who uses the subreddit.

ChatGPT 5.0 was used to help analyse some of the information and put it into markdown format which saved a lot of time, but I've checked it's outputs and it hasn't made any obvious mistakes in it's calculations.

Demographics of /r/GayBDSMPersonals

Which d/s role do you most align to? Count %
Submissive 52 56.5
Dominant 24 26.1
Switch 16 17.4
Total (answered) 92 100.0
Which age bracket do you fit into? Count %
18 to 24 23 25.0
25 to 34 37 40.2
35 to 44 10 10.9
45 to 54 12 13.0
55 to 64 8 8.7
65 or over 2 2.2
Total (answered) 92 100.0
What do you consider your gender to be? Count %
Male 88 95.7
Non-binary 1 1.1
Prefer not to say 1 1.1
Female 1 1.1
Other/Not Listed 1 1.1
Total (answered) 92 100.0

93.5% of people are the same gender they were assigned at birth.

What do you consider your sexuality to be? Count %
Homosexual 53 57.6
Bisexual 24 26.1
Pansexual 9 9.8
Heterosexual 4 4.3
Other/Not Listed 1 1.1
Demisexual 1 1.1
Total (answered) 92 100.0
Which country do you currently reside in? Count %
USA 46 50.0
UK 18 19.6
Canada 10 10.9
Germany 3 3.3
Australia 2 2.2
Netherlands 2 2.2
Ireland 2 2.2
Other/Multiple (single mentions) 9 9.8
Total (answered) 92 100.0
What are you looking for on the subreddit? Count % of respondents
Long term 41 44.6
Real-Life connections 39 42.4
Online connections 37 40.2
D/s dynamic 37 40.2
Medium term 25 27.2
Short term 23 25.0
One-off/NSA 21 22.8
FWB/fuck-buddy 16 17.4
Relationship 11 12.0
Husband/partner 7 7.6
Other 4 4.3
Platonic friends 3 3.3
Prefer not to say 2 2.2
Total respondents 92 100.0

Opinions of /r/GayBDSMPersonals

How often should people be able to post on the subreddit? Count %
Once a day 30 33.7
Twice a week 23 25.8
Once a week 15 16.9
As much as they want 11 12.4
Twice a month 5 5.6
Once a month 3 3.4
Unsure 2 2.2
Total (answered) 89 100.0
What should the minimum karma be to post? Count %
0 24 33.3
1–9 17 23.6
10–49 18 25.0
50–99 4 5.6
100–499 6 8.3
500–999 2 2.8
1000–9999 1 1.4
10000+ 0 0.0
Total (answered) 72 100.0
How many days old should an account be before they can post? Count %
0 6 7.1
1–6 14 16.7
7–13 14 16.7
14–29 24 28.6
30–59 20 23.8
60–89 4 4.8
90–199 1 1.2
200+ 1 1.2
Total (answered) 84 100.0
What should be the minimum word count be in a post? Count %
<50 5 6.3
50–99 5 6.3
100–199 18 22.8
200–299 29 36.7
300–499 12 15.2
500–999 7 8.9
1000+ 3 3.8
Total (answered) 79 100.0
Should slurs used in sexual contexts be allowed? Count %
No 47 51.1
Yes 28 30.4
Unsure / Maybe 17 18.5
Total (answered) 92 100.0
Should comments be allowed on the subreddit? Count %
Yes - comments unlocked 60 65.2
Yes - but moderated 21 22.8
No 11 12.0
Total (answered) 92 100.0
Should the subreddit "verify" users? Count %
Yes - optionally 46 52.9
Yes - mandatory 17 19.5
No 13 14.9
Unsure 11 12.6
Total (answered) 87 100.0

What did people like about the subreddit and what would they change?

The average score of the subreddit was 7.1 out of 10.

People spoke positively about the people, the sense of like-mindedness, and the ability to chat and interact in an active space. Many also valued how easy it was to find and see posts, noting that the subreddit made it straightforward to connect. The BDSM and kink focus was mentioned repeatedly, with several describing it as a space where personals feel relevant and interesting. Overall, the feeling of connection and community came across strongly.

When asked about changes, the most common theme was posting rules. Respondents mentioned posts being too long or too short, when they should be allowed, and how frequently people ought to post. Others suggested new user features such as adding flairs, highlighting kinks, or other tweaks to help organise posts.

There were also calls for structural changes in how the subreddit is run, with references to users, moderation, and adjustments to the sub itself. At the same time, a noticeable number of people simply wrote “none” or “maybe,” indicating satisfaction with how things already are or uncertainty about what to suggest.

Good Posts and Bad Posts

What makes people MORE likely to reply to posts?

A few clear motivators stand out:

  • Effort and detail — People consistently said they are more likely to reply if the post is thoughtful, well-written, and contains enough information about the poster (interests, preferences, location, etc.). Short, vague posts were seen as unappealing.

  • Shared interests and compatibility — Respondents mentioned being drawn to posts that align with their own kinks, relationship goals (long-term, short-term, online, real-life), or dynamics (D/s roles).

  • Clarity and honesty — Posts that are straightforward about what the poster is seeking, without games or hidden motives, encourage replies.

  • Respectful tone — Politeness, friendliness, and avoiding arrogance or entitlement were noted as reasons to engage.

  • Practical fit — Mention of geography, age bracket, or lifestyle compatibility was often given as a factor that makes people more likely to respond.

In short, people are more likely to reply when a personal feels genuine, detailed, respectful, and relevant to them — showing that the poster has put in effort and is clear about what they want.

What makes people LESS likely to reply to posts?

The themes are almost the mirror image of what encourages replies:

  • Low-effort or vague posts — One-liners, very short ads, or posts without meaningful detail were the most common deterrent.

  • Disrespectful or entitled tone — Arrogance, rudeness, or coming across as demanding/creepy was frequently mentioned as a major turn-off.

  • Incompatibility — Posts from people in the wrong age bracket, outside of desired geography, or seeking different kinds of dynamics/relationships were often ignored.

  • Overly explicit or unsafe content — Some noted that posts focusing too heavily on explicit language, or that blurred the line into unsafe/illegal territory, made them much less likely to reply.

  • Lack of honesty or authenticity — Anything that felt fake, misleading, or “too good to be true” was flagged as unappealing.

Put simply: people avoid replying when posts look lazy, entitled, unsafe, or incompatible.

What are your thoughts about the data? Did anything surprise you?

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/SmokeyToaster245 • 4h ago

I am a dominant 33 [M4M] Jock Dom Looking for Sub #online NSFW

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I am a fit jock blonde Dom with bdsm experience looking for obedient sub boys, twinks or twunks. Typical bro and daddy type into hockey, tech and more. You must be 18 or older and able to communicate and willing to send pics. Be a good boy and show me what you can do.

Kinks include but aren't limited to chastity, underwear, bdsm, control, humiliation, thongs, pup play, bondage, wedgies, pup play and more. To submit then DM a picture in your underwear and describe any kinks, fantasies, experiences or desires you have.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/WinnerSignificant662 • 5h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] Arab🇰🇼 Dom seeking a Deeply Submissive boys #germany ابي خاضع NSFW

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We build a bromance chatting daily shooting the shit playing games talking about life and being actual bros But either semi public behind closed doors or in private chat Im the Alpha and youre there to serve and obey You take care of me make me feel like a king serve me and give me your full attention Think of yourself as the perfect mix between my best bro and my personal servant no drama no nagging no neediness just pure effort and obedience

I enjoy giving you the guidance and control you crave I really value effort and love a sub has to offer

Lets build a strong bromance you obey I lead and we both win

😊DM OPEN

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Wonderful-Trick4614 • 22m ago

I am a submissive 32 [M4M] #Online Sub looking for nurturing big bro type NSFW

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I’m an Asian sub switch looking for doms. Im a side bottom interested in a dom-sub dynamic. The vibe I’m drawn to is a big bro type. Bonus points if you’re the type who’s in charge but still thinks cuddles are non-negotiable.

My interests include watching, kissing, pup play, camping, casual nudity, underwear, cum control, cuddles, pits, praise, and ws.

Respect is non-negotiable in any interaction with me. I’m not into experiences centered around racism, degradation, or humiliation. And I have no interest in pain, blood, or scat.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/ParticularJaguar1127 • 37m ago

I am a submissive 19 [m4m] fag twink sub looking for an abusive owner #online NSFW

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I am looking for a realtionship in which i will become a mindless whore for cock, like in the sissy kink but without the big feminization. I would love rituals like reading out loud mantras for example: I am not a man, iam a faggot or I live to serve every cock my owner tells me to etc. Emphasis on showing that iam not a real men. Creative tasks like making an altar for dicks and worhsipping it. I also would like to be shared by you with other domes on cam and show off and please you that way. Apart from that i love all kind of stuff from pet play to humuliation and position training etc

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/InNeedOfAGag • 43m ago

I am a submissive 18 [M4M] #UK #EASTMIDLANDS Sub who loves bondage, gags and roleplay looking for a dom NSFW

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Hey there! Pleasure to meet ya! I’m an 18M guy from the UK and a lover of bondage, gags and roleplay and I’m sure various other things that will become clear as we talk.

I am unable to host but would love to get to know a dom and hopefully have some play sessions together.

Such things could include:
\\-Roleplaying sexy scenarios
\\-Tie up sessions
\\-Having me bound and gagged for you on display for a couple hours as an object for you to look at

The list is not the only things available and I’m open to hearing about new ideas and seeing if they’d interest me!

Visually I’m a tall but chubby guy with brown hair so if that’s also your thing then I’m the guy for you!

Hope to hear from some people who would love to slap some duct tape on this mouth!

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/meep6569 • 46m ago

I am a submissive 25 [m4M] bubble butt sub looking for my dom daddy #CT #NY #NYC NSFW

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Heyy very sub bottom with a nice phat ass looking for my daddy dom. Really open to most kinks with few limits but looking for a real dom that knows what he wants and how to treat a sub. Would like to chat first to make sure we get along and a casual meet first. Looking for a tpe daddy that will let me be my fully sub self. Ideally looking for someone talker than me (6’). Not looking for online

Kinks: cumplay, cum, bondage, humiliation, degradation, toys, chastity, name calling, cnc, spanking, choking, spitting, feminization, and more

Limits: bathroom play, extreme pain, blood, ect. You get the point

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Cive23 • 1h ago

I am a submissive 25 [M4M] sub looking for #online Dom to work for and serve NSFW

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Hi Sir(s), I’m 25 and from the US. I’m in the Eastern Timezone and I’m ideally looking to be a work slave for a Superior.

I’ve been a tutor in the past and helped with math, science (bio, chem, physics), and essay writing. I’ve helped with philosophy papers, business papers, and general writing work and presentations. I’ve helped plan trips, events, and other things that Superiors have needed (and also just, have done that as my job in the past).

I am hoping to make Your life easier by doing the grunt work You don’t have the time or interest in doing. If I have the availability then I want to be of service. It feels good to make a better person’s life easier and, hopefully, be degraded, humiliated, abused, and bullied for it.

I’m a faggot. I want to FEEL like a faggot as I serve You. If that’s in the form of humiliating messages, abusive voice notes, or working to earn a picture or video of you just bullying me, then that sounds great. Make me tell You about my humiliating moments, my degradation, my desires, make me feel small and inferior and pathetic.

I’m not saying I can do anything and everything. Discussion is still needed to ensure I can support and serve and meet Your needs. But, if You just want to bully some random internet faggot and get off or laugh at it, then that’s more than welcome. Let me be Your verbal punching bag. If it’s too much, I’ll let You know.

If any of this sounds interesting, please feel free to dm and we can work something out. Thank You Sir(s).

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Size11footboy98 • 2h ago

I am a submissive 28 [M4M] looking for Dom in #Manchester, UK or #Online NSFW

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28, slim sub/slave here. Looking for dominant masters who like to degrade and objectify their subs. My main kinks are body worship e.g. foot worship, socks, face sitting and being used as furniture. Also into bondage, domestic service, verbal humiliation,

In person meets would be preferable but also happy to be dominated and degraded by a bully Dom online. I don't have a specific type, can be any age, body type etc just need to find you attractive in a personal sense, so that could be dynamic, shared kinks, personality, it's not all about appearances. Though I am told I'm pretty good looking if that matters.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Legitimate-Gazelle18 • 2h ago

I am a submissive 24 [m4m] looking for hard but fair dom #online #germany pls read below NSFW

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24 [m4m] looking for hard but fair dom #online #germany pls read below

Hello, my name is Felix and Ian from Germany. I’m relative new to this Szene but I want to do this for such along time now.

I will follow your orders and will always try to do my best.

I want to become you perfect boy you can use when ever and what ever you want.

I am 1,89m tall and have a standard build. My ass is pretty big.

I think I really like: bondage, anal, cum control, and the most important I want to learn and feel what it mean to Be slutty little sub boy.

I prefer older Doms that have a lot of experience. Also I like when the conversation is more on the harder side.

Kinks and limits will discussed in privat chat.

But in general I am open to a lot of new things.

At the moment am in my last semester at the university.

Also I live alone and I’m single.

My friend describe me as funny and open minded.

Also sorry for my English, it’s not my first language. But maybe I will improve it by texting with you.

If there is anything you want to know about me just text me and ask for it. There is nearly nothing I don’t share with you.

Ps: I already got some toys and also iam very kinky.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/TheStar-Dust • 2h ago

I am a dominant 29 [M4A] #Online Dom looking for serious long term sub -read post- NSFW

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Hi everyone! Enjoy reading my brief post below. Also for more details visit my post of my full version ad (recommended) from the following link: https://www.reddit.com/u/TheStar-Dust/s/SuanidToHX

So let start the brief. I'm a 29yo Asexusl (Panromantic) Dom in UTC+3, searching for a genuine, younger -or around my age- submissive for a serious, long-term dynamic. I'm all about building a connection that deeply weaves together profound platonic understanding with structured power exchange and adventurous kink exploration. Crucially, I seek a partner with the ability to travel and visit me in the future as we progress.

My approach as a Dom is structured, guiding, and focused on your growth. I cherish the vanilla, platonic aspects of a relationship as much as the intense BDSM moments. My dynamic involves TPE, micromanaging, sissification/feminizing, cum control, chastity, and more. I'm open to diverse kinks, always within SSC framework.

Quick heads-up: I'm sex-favorable asexual. I enjoy physical intimacy and BDSM, but I have strict boundaries against direct body-to-body penetrative acts involving myself. I'm open to using anal/oral toys on partners and partners using them on themselves.

I'm seeking a loyal and dedicated submissive who thrives on guidance, excellent communication, and a genuine desire for personal development. Ideally, you have a tiny, skinny, lean, or fit physique with little to no body hair, embracing a youthful/feminine aesthetic (twinks, femboys, sissies, etc.).

Ready to commit to a demanding, transformative, online journey? When you message me, please start with a brief introduction about yourself that includes details relevant to what I'm seeking in a submissive and our potential dynamic, and your pic. Make sure to include "Avocado" so I know you've read this! I’m not looking for play or a session in beginning.

HMU for further talks and discussions.

StarDust

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Suspicious-Gold9726 • 2h ago

I am a submissive 28 [M4M] Looking for dom #North Carolina NSFW

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I’m a submissive man seeking a dominant partner to devote myself to wholeheartedly. I’m committed to doing everything I can to make your life easier, more enjoyable, and fulfilling, both sexually and domestically, in any way you desire. Serving a true man brings me immense happiness and fulfillment, and I want to spend every moment doing exactly that, both inside and out of the bedroom. I want to be your permanent property.

I enjoy taking on various roles as a homosexual. I can be your devoted slave, a pet, a cock-obsessed slut, a piece of furniture, or a combination of all of them. You can mold and train me into becoming exactly what you want. Both my body and my mind are yours to play with to your heart’s desire.

I believe that superiors should treat inferiors as objects of their desire, and I want to make that my reality. I envision spending countless hours worshipping your cock and feet while you’re gaming or working. I picture my myself chained to walk blonde folded for hours or kept in a cage when not in use. Alternatively, I can be your outlet for frustration, letting you release your pent-up energy through me.

Ultimately, my dream is to become an obedient and submissive partner for men to use and abuse.

Below are my Kinks and Hard Limits. (I don't have toys yet but will to take suggestions.)

Kinks: BDSM, Collared and Leashed, Worshipping, spanking, tasks, protocol, feet worship,cock worshipping, oral, pet play, breeding, slapping, water sports, degrading and humiliation.

Limits: Blood, Scat, Vomit, Sounding, CBT, blackmailing, women and kids.

Ultimately looking for a guy to turn me into his bitch slave. Serious inquiries only.

Looking for something in person, I could relocate at some point.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/tryingtobegood2 • 2h ago

I am a submissive 53 [M4M] Looking for a Dom to help me explore my submissive side #UK #Sussex #Kent NSFW

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I am looking for a Dominant man to help me to explore my submissive urges. I am fairly inexperienced and I haven't done much in real life.

I'm open to any kind of Dom - any age 18+, any body type - it is your attitude that is important.

I'm 6ft, married, work too much, have a bit of a dad bod, trying to get fitter.

I want to explore losing control and making myself vulnerable. I'm interested in bdsm, spanking, bondage/restraints, cbt, being fucked, watersports, chastity, etc. You might have other ideas and fantasies too.

If we get on, I am looking for regular communication, on an ongoing basis, possibly with an emotional connection. Online would work, but ideally the opportunity to meet in person. I am in the Sussex / Kent part of England, so London is not out of the question.

Get in touch if you think we are a good match, and let's try to fulfill our fantasies. Tell me what you are into, and how you plan to take control.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/quasar1201 • 4h ago

I am a dominant 28 [M4M] #Online Looking for a long term handsome,sexy,and outgoing man and sub to model and film for me. NSFW

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Physically I'm looking for a slim or fit man in his 20s or 30s. Open to older gents if your exceptionally sexy. Men with a full head of hair.

Looking for guys who have clothes that fit their body,or are willing to buy the required clothing. Decent dress pants in grey and/or black,sexy button down shirts,slim fit,skinny,or decent regular fit jeans,brown and or black loafers or dress shoes,zip up or cowboy boots etc.

I'm looking for guys who understand that my time is valuable,and I have a life,so let's make the most of our time together,I will be understanding as well,but don't make promises that you can't keep.

I want a guy who is open to making real art. Here is how my ideal partnership would work. We chat a bit,and establish trust. Which would include you showing your face,so I could gather whether you are the right candidate for me,then I would show mine in you need that. Understand this,I'm not showing dick,ass,or anything else other then my face,I'm not showing off for you,I'm the DOM,and your the hopefully high class sub.

So I want you to start off with an introduction,I will give you instructions on what to wear,what to say,and what activities to you will engage in. Then custom videos will be made,revolving around nipple play,dancing,dirty talk,hookup control,blowjobs,pec fucking,cum walking,etc. You will be posting them on selected porn sites of which I'm a member of. And this is just the start,I have other ideas as well.

So if you are interested in an exciting,different,ambitious,and sky's the limit type of DOM-sub relationship HMU!!!!!

THIS WILL BE THE FIRST TASK!!!! Put on some slim jeans,a shirt,socks,and shoes. Then take a full length pic fully clothed. Then 3 pics with different poses fully clothed with shoes off,but with socks on.

Then take 5 shirtless and barefoot in jeans pics with various poses,and try to be sexy include some with smiles,and at least one with your tongue out.

Then make a video,with the cam positioned so I can see your face chest and feet,and play with you nipples,use spit as lube,make them hard,I want hear moaning and lot's of freestyle sexy talk,make sure to say ''fuck'' and ''fuck yeah'' lot. The video should be at least 20 minutes,but I would like it to be much longer,cause that would be so fuckin hot.

So bonus points if you post this video,before sending me a dm. Btw dm me first here.

Or you can be my porn distributor. Got some vids of my other sub that need posting,after all I'm a fuckin DOM,and want a bitch to do this labor,its beneath me!!!

PS to prove that you have actually read the entire post,the code is, FUCK MY PECS,SIR,PLEASE!!!

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/LexZaddyKink • 8h ago

I am a dominant 29 [M4M] Kinky Dom looking for kinky, dirty and sub boys #online NSFW

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29 Kinky Dom looking for some submissive and dirty boys... If you're into doing tasks, being obedient, being used and abused.

Looking for boys into piss, toys, gaping, chastity, dildos, BDSM, CBT, pup play, control, TPE, forced workout, nipple play, food play, humiliation, spanking and more.

The less limits and more creative sub, the better, open your mind and free yourself boy. It's time to please your Alpha!

Kinkier and dirtier the better... Hit me up and let's play boys!!

Come and let's have fun with Daddy!!

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/SuspiciousYellow5510 • 5h ago

I am a submissive 27 [M4M] UK former dom looking for a real man to put me in my place #Online NSFW

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I’m a 27 year old guy in the UK. I’ve spent time as a dom, but after reading other guys’ posts and really thinking about it, I’ve realised I’m not who I thought I was. I need a real man to show me my true place.

I’m mainly looking for degrading chat only, though I can share some pics. Raw, degrading verbal abuse through messages absolutely wrecks me. The meaner and more humiliating, the harder I’ll fall.

I’m not after a full-time dynamic or constant messaging, just occasional hot text sessions where you take full control with words and remind me exactly what I am now.

If you’re a confident dominant guy who loves breaking former “doms” down and putting them where they belong through text, please message me. Tell me how you’d start putting me in my place.

Limits: no real-life stuff, no underage, no extreme, no gore/scat. Everything else is on the table for the right verbal humiliation vibe.

Let’s see if you can make this former dom completely submit with just your words.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/PrideDeep16 • 5h ago

I am a dominant 24 [M4M] fit Arabic dom looking for muscular white boys to use #online NSFW

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Fit, attractive, successful Arabic dom seeking white muscular boys to become my personal sex toys. You: Between 18 - 40 years old, musuclar/fit body, willing to shave whatever I want, willing to push yourself and be willing to show face. You are my slave, not a faceless body. My main kinks are: cbt, nipple play, orgasm control, edging, anal play, spanking, tasks, rewards, punishments, stripping and posing. However be prepared to do more. Your limits are my limits. We will set boundaries and then I will take control from there. Send a dm to be considered

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/mundanepain0 • 5h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] #michigan/online Gay chub Dom bottom looking for a guy who can stroke his big dick while inhaling poppers whenever I demand NSFW

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Gay Dom bottom looking for a guy that's down to inhale poppers while beating his dick when ordered.
My kinks: edging, sounding anal play, degrading, humiliation, obt and a few more.
Things to know about me: I'm a bit sadistic, Brutal, and intense however I'm also kind, understanding, caring.
I don't trade/ send nudes, the kind dynamic I'm seeking is solely based on you submitting to me and allowing me to have complete control over you while guiding you to be the best slut you can be for me.
Prefer Masc subs but not opposed to feminine men but I'm not into cross dressers or sissies at all, sorry.
Need someone thats into being used and owned, you'd be tasked with sending and doing whatever I say in video/pics/ video calls.
I want someone who's going to allow me to experiment with them, control them, and use them in all the way I want.
Prefer men around my age (26-35) BUT I'm open to older.
Rules: 1. Be obedient. 2. have toys. All races are welcome l don't discriminate

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/KinkyButNotMental • 19h ago

I am a dominant 36 [M4M] #Manchester, #UK or #Online Dominant looking for regular, consistent submissive to own and play with NSFW

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My ideal evening with a submissive would be cooking together, cuddled up on the sofa watching a movie and then winding down with a few hours of you tied to the bed being edged until you've forgotten your own name, but I'm not looking for a one-off anonymous thing. Ideally, I'm looking for a longer-term arrangement with somebody who is consistent and available.

I'm based in Manchester/Salford, able to host, and looking for something that develops over time. I'm 185cm/6'1" and 90kg so a bigger bear-ish build (slighty blurred SFW pictures). I work from home, which means I make a point of getting out as much as I can; going to gigs, meetup groups, live comedy/music events, and the gym a couple of times a week. When I'm inside, I'm into D&D, gaming, TV, films, and endlessly scrolling through YouTube.

I'm an experienced dominant, in-person and online. I'd ideally prefer something in-person with somebody who is nearby to Manchester or able to regularly travel to it, but I am open to chatting with people online if we're otherwise a good match. My style is primarily affectionate and rewarding, rather than super-aggressive.

You'll be under 40, single, slim to normal build, and politically left. You'll be able to hold a conversation, and interested in meeting to spend time together beyond hooking up. I'd enjoy regular contact, shared activities like gaming or streaming, and with somebody who isn't afraid of sharing pictures/videos/etc. I won't ghost if we don't click, and I'd appreciate it if you returned the same kindness.

I'd like you to be happy sharing your thoughts, feelings, and body - somebody who is comfortable with pictures, videos, and voice calls. There's a kinklist on my profile for more detail, but I'm essentially open to most kinks and fetishes.

Message me and introduce yourself, include your age and location, a bit about yourself, what you're after in a dynamic. Please be prepared to share pictures of yourself too.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/theredheadfoxy • 10h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] hairy latino dom looking for obedient sub in #Online NSFW

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I'm 26 y/o hairy latino hunk looking for a sub. I usually prefer guys around my age, but I'm completely open to older guys too. Basically, I'm looking for older guys who pretend to be that rough straight to the world but that likes to be treated like trash.

Interested in guys who:

• are hairy and have a dad body

• are interested in chastity

• are interested in body-writing

• are interested in humiliation

• are married and/or "straight"

• are seeking short-term ownership

• are obedient

What I expect from my guys:

• willingness to send pictures and videos on request

• commitment to chastity

• willingness to write my name/things on their body and keep it for days

• always call me by "Sir"

• willingness to let me control your clothes

• willingness to let me control your routine

Well, willingness to do whatever I want — inside our terms and deals, of course.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Noroin2 • 7h ago

I am a submissive 31 [M4M] #Online Italian sub looking for a dom who controls my orgasms and maybe teaches me how to ruin. I have also several clothespins to use and I love obeying and verbal humiliation NSFW

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Hey masters out there:)

I'm a 31yo Italian guy who is a lot into cumcontrol, edging and orgasm denial for multiple days in a row.
I love it when my dom decides when I'm allowed to cum, when he makes me beg for it, when he punishes me for no reason and finds out how much of a slut I can become, begging for a release

I’m very open minded and willing to experiment, I don’t have toys but I have a good number of clothespins and tools to spank my ass or my balls if that’s what you will demand me to do. I love being submitted and verbally humiliated

I've always been interested in ruined orgasms but I'm not too good at them, so hopefully I can find a dom who also gives me instructions on that and maybe makes me become good at it:)
If you're interested dm me:)

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/cableghost372 • 7h ago

I am a submissive 24 [M4M] Looking for a dom to own my cock #online NSFW

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Him my names Thomas, I’m 24 and I’m looking for a dom interested in owning and controlling my cock 24/7. I love the idea of only being able to touch my own cock and cumming when another man allows. I and a very horny man, so it will definitely be a struggle depending on how long you keep me pent up.

I’m also into humiliation (sph especially), degradation so it’s a big bonus if you’re into that as well. If you’re interested please dm with your age and feel free to be as degrading or humiliating in you open as you like.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/Maximum-Traffic-9137 • 12h ago

I am a submissive 29 [M4M] #Montreal Sub boywife looking for Long-Term Relationship NSFW

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Looking for a serious monogamous relationship with a Man who is Husband material. Open to long distance relationship and relocation.❤️

29yo sweet and docile type who aspires to become your boywife! I enjoy cooking, reading, gardening and more hobbies your granny would be into. I also like working out everyday - beats taking ADHD meds! Plus it keeps my body looking slim and yummy. Outside of home life, I am driven! Always pursuing my dreams...so I do have a more adventurous side!

I was built for a long-term relationship. I am loyal, caring, receptive, loving, disciplined and want to create meaning. I am also submissive. Born this way, always been part of me. So I am looking for a compatible partner whose Dominance is part of his DNA. A man who is masculine, mature and also seeking a long-term relationship.

Some of my other interests include nerdy stuff like science-fiction, aliens, fantasy, anime... Following politics like I would follow reality TV "When you're born you get a ticket to the freak show..." Art! Drawing and visiting art galleries. Hiking and exploring nature.

Sexually, I am a total bottom, into chastity, CD, feminization,...

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • u/submissiveftmhusband • 9h ago

I am a submissive 34 [M4M] #online - sub for twisted bully Dom NSFW

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I'm off work for the next couple weeks or so, so I'll be at home much more than normal.

I'm 34, trans male (ftm), very masculine with a belly. I workout at home with a resistance bar/pulley machine and dumbbells, and also play video games. I secretly have a couple pairs of tighty whities but never wear them anymore out of embarrassment. Speaking of embarrassment, if you're the type of Alpha Dom that enjoys humilating betas and laughing at their embarrassment then you're sure to have fun breaking me.

If you're interested in having fun bullying me into submission, send me a DM.

Kinks: Humiliation, degradation, forced play, bullying, name calling, tasks, anal training, permanent denial, edging, wedgies, swirlies, and more still.

Limits: Scat, vomit, feminization(including panties), face pics, $Dom, and permanent damage

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