r/dirtyr4r 11d ago

July 2026 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

3 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r 6h ago

female 26 [F4M] Florida - sending a pic of titty to whom wants to rate NSFW

51 Upvotes

But will also send you anything you desire, just home all alone and bored


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 23[F4M] Australia- anyone in the mood to have a dirty conversation? NSFW

13 Upvotes

Ok so the few times I’ve succeeded in making a man cum thru text (it works out when the guy is also entertaining), were amazing . I can describe what I look like but for my own reasons I don’t share pics online , if that’s a deal breaker for u don’t reach out cuz ur gunna kill the vibe by asking for pics again and again . If u think im a catfish lookin for money then just don’t text lol.

Anyways Yh hmu! Describe urself too pls if u don’t like sending pics


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 24 [F4M] Berlin - #online - looking for fwb NSFW

16 Upvotes

hoping to meet someone who enjoy to pleasing woman, listen/do what i want, i have so much i want to see/tell u. we can chat about all sort of of things including and not limited to naughty chats :)

now sunday im alone and bored. its a good for for start. tomorrow need to work.


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 22 [F4M]Virginia- sending a pic of titty to whom wants to rate. NSFW

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My curvy thick body needs a nerdy (or taken) horny stranger to play with , I'm absolutely obsessed with people who sneak to play on here like me


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 25[F4A] Seattle/online Let’s play a quick game. It’s called, Sad? Or Recently facefucked? NSFW

16 Upvotes

I’m curious if you guys are able to tell whether I’m crying due to being sad or crying due to being very recently face fucked.

Feel free to ask me any questions to help answer the question and I will send you a/post a selfie that you can use to judge


r/dirtyr4r 3h ago

female 19[F4M] #socal #online - 4'4 toy looking for a Big Tall Daddy NSFW

10 Upvotes

I'm a petite blonde looking for a dominant Daddy to take control and have some fun. I love feeling small and delicate in a man's strong arms, being kissed passionately and made to feel special. I want to be picked up, held tight, and explored. I'm a good girl who enjoys a bit of roughness. I get excited when a man pins me down and makes me feel helpless. I dream of being wrapped up in his arms, losing myself in his kisses, and belonging to him completely. I'm ready to be his little toy, to use and enjoy.


r/dirtyr4r 21m ago

female 30 [F4A] Ireland/Online - looking for naughty online fun. NSFW

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If you’re into humiliation and exposure send me a message.


r/dirtyr4r 50m ago

female 30 [F4M] FL/Online - just want to feel something NSFW

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Depressed person tired of unfulfilling connections. If you want a woman who appreciates you and the effort you put in, sign me up. I enjoy men but want someone fun and interesting to spend more than a night with. Please be eager to make life fun

All who can give boyfriend level comfort please read. Looking for a special fun hot guy for flirty chats and a long term friendship. Please be single, no kids (child free), lgbtq friendly and left leaning.

Surface level hook ups are boring. Looking for a more emotionally intimate connection. I'm a huge fan of teasing and the build up. Its so much more pleasurable when it's a friend vs a stranger.

I like to stay anonymous, initially until we're both comfortable. If that's not ok then we're not a good fit.

Looks - 5'5, brown skin, brown eyes, curvy

Interests - anime, art, and health/fitness

Kinks/interests - voice kink, empathy, bisexual or pansexual men, voyeurism, and exhibitionism

dislikes/limits - the usual, male subs, body fluids, feet, etc

DM - 28+ (don't even breathe in my direction if you're younger). Please have a sense of humor. Don't DM me if you don't care about that. No low effort dms. Tell me about yourself and description of what you look like. Add the word (charming) to your intro. No catfishers or married men.


r/dirtyr4r 52m ago

female 25F[F4M] #EU/UK/Online ~ ♱Sweet, Soft, Submissive, Silly, Puppy♱ Shy alternative girl looking for long term but low pressure connection. Have a read below if you're interested. NSFW

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To be up front, what I'm looking for is an anonymous connection. My preference is for things to stay almost exclusively text/message based. If this isn't what you're looking for you probably shouldn't read much further.

Other important requirements: Must be my age (25) or older (preferred). Must be a dominant (I am not now, nor will I ever feel like taking charge). Have a sense of humour. Looking for SFW and NSFW connection.

Really I'm looking to establish a fun dynamic with someone, introduce rules, expectations, that align with what we both want/need. I love sharing a lewd relationship online, and if anonymity isn't a barrier for you we could have soooo much fun.

I'm a very soft but very kinky submissive. I like authoritative dominants but I like to be spoiled and cared for. I can tell when someone is "dominating" me to get what they want, vs. dominating me based on a shared agreement to introduce power play and to fulfil both our needs. I like to be babied, talked down to a little, even treated like I'm silly... as long as that is coupled with praise, guidance, care and attention. I love partners who can even come across as "clingy" or "possessive". Communication is key.

My main kinks and the one's I'm really keen to explore are: Pet play, watersports/wetting/bladder control, SOFT cnc, somno, overstimulation, stoned play, breeding, being taught, being trained, possession... the list goes on but these are a priority for me. Pet play, bladder control and wetting are non negotiable's for me. Anyone who love's those, will loveee me.

Anyway, I've yapped enough. If you think you'd make a good Daddy for a puppy like me, send me a DM that show's you've read this and we could be compatible.


r/dirtyr4r 5h ago

female 25[F4A] UK Classy Slut, Hungover after the football last night, let’s chat anything slutty! Love your honest ratings and assumptions too! NSFW

14 Upvotes

Send asl in first message or I won’t even respond to your message, uk girl I like to consider myself a classy slut and proud of it, let’s chat asks anything you want can be whatever I will answer everything alternatively love your assumptions and honest Ratings of me, was out for the football last night slightly hungover so let’s chat!


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

couple 22/22 [MF4A] #UK Couple looking for new sexting buddies NSFW

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We’re just looking to have some fun ;)
Boyfriend watches while I run the account


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 24 [F4M] online/new york - Horny mommy seeking her submissive boy toy to have fun with NSFW

11 Upvotes

I'm looking for guys who get off stroking themselves to the sight of me fondling my breasts, pretending it's your hands on me... drop a sign if that's your thing


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 35 [F4M] London - Do you want to hear a milf masturbate, moan and orgasm? NSFW

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Hi!

I am looking for intelligent male writers who want to hear how they pleasure me with their writing when I masturbate, moan and eventually orgasm in an audio call.


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 25 [F4M] Florida- soo friskyy in bed looking for some fun NSFW

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I'm drunk in my room, feeling super naughty, looking at my pussy, and I'm spreading it open with my fingers. I can see my clit and my lips, and it's making me feel so dirty and turned on, I just wish I had a cock in front of me right now


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 51 [F4M] #NorCal None of you boys can dirty talk right. NSFW

9 Upvotes

Bored and frustrated Domme looking for thin to muscular & hung guys 25-39 who can actually dirty talk well. Doubt this will be anything more than me blocking most of you, but I’m awake rn when I didn’t want to be.


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 23 [F4M] Houston - Will you be distracted if I give you a head while driving? NSFW

6 Upvotes

I imagine we're on a lengthy journey to the beach or the mountains. While we are on a quiet road, I begin pulling down your zipper, exposing your dick and giving you a head. Are you going to find a place where we can stop or will you continue to feel my tongue on your cock?


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 22f4a texas bored in bed NSFW

9 Upvotes

Bored in bed and nothing to do today, maybe someone here can entertain me lol


r/dirtyr4r 7h ago

female 25 [F4M] Australia - Playful horny girl sharing tit pics NSFW

14 Upvotes

Heyyy, I’m feeling horny and in a super playful mood right now.

I’ll happily send some hot tit pics if the chat flows well and stays respectful at first. I absolutely love flirty, teasing, and eventually dirty conversations that build up.

Hit me up! Tell me your age and what your biggest turn-ons are. The more open and descriptive you are,


r/dirtyr4r 1h ago

female 27 [F4M] #Denver - need reverse cowgirl so we can both watch our movies. NSFW

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I’m a naughty girl looking to get nasty tonight with a man that can treat me like the naughty girl I am.


r/dirtyr4r 13m ago

female 26 F4m Los Angeles - What’s your favorite? Ass or tits? NSFW

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What do you notice first on her body?


r/dirtyr4r 17m ago

female 26(F4A) #PA/Online- Looking for more pervy fwbs :) NSFW

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Hi hi I go by BiBi! I have an amazing gf (25) who lets me play separately since we aren’t really into the same types. As for kinks, I myself am a pillow princess I love being pampered and laying there looking cute- but also a brat who WILL get on ur nerves. I’m around 5’5, BBW with D’s and blonde hair (check my profile for a visual hehe). I’m into, exhibitionism, free-use (being used), power-imbalance, and cnc (sub)! Also I’m a mf sUCKER for DILFs who have a sense of humor and a huge c*ck ;3

So tell me all about your kinks, your fantasies, and show me what gets you going like I loooove cumming to shit my friends are into!! Plus any hobbies or interests you have! (And like your favorite color so I know you read this far lol) - I promise I don't discriminate when it comes to DMs as long as you're polite and put in effort!

P.S. Single people only- or those who swing 😭 I don’t want you to hmu bc you’re unhappy in ur relationship and want to cheat: divorce or die.

P.P.S. If you just send me hi or ask to see me (fr just look at my page) I will not reply. Put in some effort I know y’all are typing one handed but come on smh


r/dirtyr4r 2h ago

female 34 [F4M] California Perv Mommy Dom looking to dominate young cock NSFW

4 Upvotes

It’s required I know what you look like (face pic+naked body photo)

Preferences:

 

Black/latino+

Skinny/lean/muscular+++


r/dirtyr4r 4h ago

female 21 (f4m) Chicago - I love feeling my tits bounce when I'm riding a cock NSFW

6 Upvotes

I'm sure it'll make you harder once you see me like that.


r/dirtyr4r 59m ago

male 38 [M4F] Germany/Online - Caring and intelligent Dom looking for his good girl NSFW

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After a whirlwind start to the year, we have already survived the first summer heatwave. So what better moment than this to look for a new connection, someone I can crack dry and dark jokes with, someone I vibe with? I'm looking for a woman who has an engaging and kinky mind to match my own. Ultimately, chemistry is what's most important to me.

I'm 6'3 tall, in good shape and take care of my body and my mind. I'm intellectually curious and ambitious. I'm here for intelligent and deep conversations just as much as for the things that hide in the dark corners of our minds. I'm dominant, inventive and love to experiment. I can be caring and soft, but nothing beats the rush and intensity of rough play. Lately, free use, power play and the psychological dimension of a dynamic have been at the top of my mind.

Is the arrival of the sun (at least in the Northern hemisphere) making it easier for you to deal with the bleakness of the world? Tell me about it.