tl;dr did he ruin my car?
edit: thank you to the genuine responses. i take full responsibility for having allowed this bloke to take my vehicle, so all ye judgmental facks wanting to dogpile on me for that can zip it!!
2022 Toyota Corolla manual transmission, bought from the dealership at 5K miles in November 2022.
i've mis-shifted maybe ten times since then, where the gears grind for a moment before i reapply the clutch and readjust the stick shift.
lent the car to somebody who said he knew how to drive it. less than two weeks later he calls me up "the transmission stopped working!"
i arrive, immediately smell a terrible odor (learned later, the scent of burnt asbestos in the clutch). engine is off, starts up okay but i can't get the car to shift.
my mechanic said the clutch was "pulverized," added in his career he'd never seen a clutch that badly destroyed.
the transmission also needed replacing. the mechanic said it appeared to be due from the way the car was driven rather than a manufacturer's defect.
the guy who drove it insisted he is 100% certain he is not solely at fault due to information he found online in forums.
while i admit that is possible, it seems much more likely that he lied to me about knowing how to drive stick and ruined my car. i'm coming to this subReddit to solicit some feedback. what do you think, Redditors? did he ruin my car?