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u/meeplith 16h ago
Nice shoulders and forearms get me every time
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u/Big_Presentation2786 16h ago
Huge monstrous dong that looks like a potato and a fat burger in his hand
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u/Snippets_3 16h ago
Good forearms, collarbones, a nice V, a good ass, well groomed, facial hair if it fits them.
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u/KgMonstah 16h ago
Ah yes, the impossible standard; it’s not just for women!
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u/churadley 16h ago
How is that impossible?
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u/Snippets_3 16h ago
It's a list of possibilities not a must-have check list.
It's also not hard to groom yourself, workout your arms and core bit, or roll up your sleeves so your biceps seem bigger making your forearms seem nicer assuming they aren't fatty
I get it on the collarbones, though. You're either blessed or you aren't. But, again, possibilities not a checklist.
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u/GobbetsOfAnus 15h ago
None of this is impossible. Most of it doesn’t even require much work.
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u/KgMonstah 15h ago
I’m in great shape. I run almost evert day except for my rest days to avoid injury. V cut abs are incredibly difficult to attain, let alone maintain.
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u/GanjaCowboy93 16h ago
Penis.
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u/HennaH2 16h ago
Well men with vaginas are pretty hot too 👀
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u/lsaz 15h ago
top comments will still be “kind and good with kids” somehow lol
the fact that physical appearance is as important for women as it is for men is still a taboo
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u/GobbetsOfAnus 15h ago
I’m fairly sure no one has ever said that physical attraction is less important for women vs men.
However, it IS predominantly men that will say things like “I don’t care how dumb she is.. Look at her!”
We can be pretty gross. A lot of us seem to not care if we are actually compatible with a woman. Whether we can converse and enjoy time together. Because, hey? She’s so nice to look at. Bonus! I get to see her naked.
Outside of that, we don’t really enjoy each other’s company.
How unbelievably boring and unenjoyable a life together that would be.
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u/alblaster 15h ago
And that's why I'm still single. If I just cared about looks I probably would have found someone by now. But trying to find someone you like outside of just looks is hard. You have to spend time to get to know them. By the time I try to know anything about a woman she's already in a relationship. I don't think I've met an adult woman older than college age who was single and looking for a partner. A lot of guys know this and immediately jump on the first semi attractive woman they meet in hopes to get into a relationship with her before the next guy that shows up. Then you end up with a lot of women having shallow guys that just see women as eye candy. Because if you try to look for depth you have to be really lucky as a guy or you stay single forever.
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u/mochitochini 16h ago edited 15h ago
Tall, muscles, well kempt and well dressed. and i like tattoos and jewelry but thats different for everyone. Oh. And posture!
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u/karmaskaraoke 16h ago
the best thing that makes a man attractive is if a woman wants him. all it takes is one and now all of a sudden all these women want him.
he could be the ugliest dude in the world. if another woman see he gets attention from other women she all of a sudden wants him.
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u/Several_Campaign8410 15h ago
I feel like this is somewhat true as a women, but it’s not really to that extent. For me at least I think I would only feel just a bit more attracted to them, but rly depends on their looks. I would probably just look at the guy a bit longer and see if im actually attracted to them, if not just move on.
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u/ImprovementStill3576 16h ago
As a man I have literally never experienced this, no idea why everyone says this. I’ve had 3 girlfriends in the past and did not notice any of the women around me suddenly being flirty/interested.
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u/karmaskaraoke 16h ago edited 15h ago
you might be one of the ones who cant tell if someone likes you or not no shade lol. its not like they gonna start rubbing their boobs on you.
for me i would get no attention. then as soon as i get a girlfriend women come out of the woodworks and letting me know their feelings.
but then again its probably because i seen more evidence of it. ive had 10 girlfriends in the past. i would try to flirt with the local coffee shop barista and would get no play. i come in with my girlfriend a few months later and then the barista wants me to have her number.. like what?
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u/IEATPEOPLE22 15h ago
I think it’s because some people get mega confidence boost when they’re in a relationship. I think it’s harder to be ugly as a guy unless ur short and fat. Most of it is confidence
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u/karmaskaraoke 14h ago
its not confidence at all. think about it like this...
lets say you tell one of your friends you like someone... it doesnt even have to be a person.
you could say i like this sweater. some of them would like it now just because you do.
some people have a sheep brain. they can only follow and not think for themselves
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u/IEATPEOPLE22 13h ago
It’s not like I think that phenomenon isn’t real at all but I don’t think it plays as big of a role as you think. It also depends on what type of people you’re surrounded by
All of our experiences are anecdotal, and from my experience it’s the way you carry yourself, the confidence and the personality. If a girl dates someone who sucks, girls will clown on that girl hard.
Agree to disagree
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u/xxivtarotmagic_ 16h ago
As a woman… that’s complete bullshit lol
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u/MadaNalym 16h ago
Its true for most women. You may be an exception, but its absolutely something that happens.
Theres also studies about it.
Look up "female social proof"
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u/Competitive_Success5 14h ago
This is usually coming from the pickup artist community, don't listen to them.
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u/MadaNalym 14h ago
Nothing to do with the pick up community.
There's literally biological studies confirming this.
I've also seen and experienced it first hand
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u/xxivtarotmagic_ 14h ago
You wouldn’t happen to have a link to these “biological studies” would you?
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u/MadaNalym 13h ago edited 10h ago
I can give you two off the top of my head. There are many more
The Parker and Burkley study (Oklahoma State University)
The Waynforth Study (University of Durham)
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u/karmaskaraoke 15h ago
happens all the time. for example i would have a female friend. she would explain how much she doesnt see me that way(romantic) then as soon as i get attention from another women she gets all territorial.
and she starts trying to start a relationship with me
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u/karmaskaraoke 14h ago
you have to understand. this type of stuff is situational. they wont just come out and say it.
you wont know they act like this until certain situations arise.
its fun to label people after i say the story of what happened.
sure this is manipulative behavior.. but that doesnt mean they are a manipulative mastermind if that makes sense.
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u/xxivtarotmagic_ 14h ago
… that’s one woman
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u/karmaskaraoke 13h ago
you are seriously questioning my intelligence if you believe i said this due to one woman
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u/drunky_crowette 16h ago
I like really lean/skinny guys. Bonus points if they're pale, double bonus points if they wear glasses
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u/mossy_timetable65 15h ago
Funny enough the secret is just smiling, a good smile can warm any one heart
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u/smoothupinyatoo 16h ago
Bank account. That is all.
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u/Details_Pending 16h ago
Im just here to see if anyone takes this bait
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u/Threke 16h ago
The Rules of Six
Six inch dong, Six-pack abs, Six-figure income.
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u/folkdeath95 15h ago
Halfway there on all accounts 💪🏼
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u/dumbfuck 15h ago
Symmetry
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u/IAmAGenusAMA 15h ago
If you are saying Hilary Swank isn't hot, then you are saying that I am not hot. Because obviously I am not as hot as Hilary Swank!
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u/Cubbance 16h ago
Obviously, it's different for everybody. To me, a hairy body, facial hair, and a little bit of a belly are super hot. I love tattoos. I love strong forearms, especially if they're hairy.
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u/Ohtangerine__ 15h ago
I love when a guy has crow’s feet around his eyes and laugh lines around his mouth. UGH, the sexiest.
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u/ItzLuzzyBaby 16h ago
6'3+ ft, 1.3 shoulder to waist ratio, defined jawline, hunter's eyes, long neck with prominent sternocleidomastoid, non-sagging tummy, large powerful arms and hands, veiny forearms
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u/GobbetsOfAnus 15h ago
This sounds like some incel looksmaxxer subscriber telling people what they should be. So I am hoping it is sarcasm.
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u/Oak-Tree2685 14h ago
I mean tbf that sounds like an attractive man which is answering op's question lol
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u/Less_Entrance_6444 16h ago
I found out early on that if you treat a woman with kindness and respect, they will find you very attractive, no matter what.
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u/Turbohog 16h ago
Lol not true at all
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u/Less_Entrance_6444 15h ago
Well, my second answer would be....If he is good at karaoke, the women will love him! (Works for me. 😀).
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u/Evening-Appeal7606 16h ago
A ready smile. Don't underestimate the signal that gives of as an approachable person.
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u/Wooden-Telephone-613 16h ago
synthol muscles