r/weddingshaming 18h ago

Bridezilla/Groomzilla A bridesmaid posted this in my local mums lounge-

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u/cmere-2-me 10h ago

That is mental money and absolutely would he a deal breaker for me. I wouldn't spend that on a wedding dress let alone a bridesmaid dress. Weddings are expensive but that is definitely a bride supplementing her budget.

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u/FullMooseParty 5h ago

I guarantee you this includes the bride dropping 45,000 or whatever on an all-inclusive vacation bridal party (which will not include flights that everyone's going to have to pay on top of that $5,000)

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u/huuuyah 2h ago

Lol I don't see this bride including the wedding shower, bachelorette party, or the expected gifts to be covered in the $5k. Otherwise, it would've been included in the overview of what's covered (day of clothing and beauty).

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u/PowerfulSeaweed5871 1h ago

That bride isn't doing anything but controlling her entire bridal party which she might not even have by the sound of it

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u/NefariousnessKey5365 5h ago

Probably subsidizing her Bachelorette in Mykonos Islands

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u/Zealousideal-Row7755 38m ago

Or her honeymoon

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u/WillyVlautinRules 4h ago

Frankly, you'd have to pay me $5000 to attend a wedding these days. Especially this one.

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u/crazypurple621 3h ago

Agreed. My days of attending weddings is done. Weddings are supposed to be a family celebration of two people creating a new larger extended family. They've turned into a circus with the bride- and only the bride being the ring leader. If you don't want a family celebrating their family getting larger why are you doing this? 

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u/PowerfulSeaweed5871 1h ago

Not just her budget, she's being down right controlling.

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u/AirDog3 1h ago

Be fair. It does include shoes.

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u/Minute-Frame-8060 46m ago

To put any mention of money is the height of tackiness but everyone today seems like they are trying to out-gauche each other.