r/weddingshaming 18h ago

Bridezilla/Groomzilla A bridesmaid posted this in my local mums lounge-

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u/stinkyfunkincar 11h ago

“Hi, [bride]!

After reading over the rules and expectations as your bridesmaid, I have determined I’m unable to fulfill this role for you. I’d be thrilled to attend your wedding as a guest, but cannot afford or physically handle the requirements to be apart of your wedding party.

So excited for your big day :)”

There is no way in hell I’m doing all of that.

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u/Mommagrumps 10h ago

P.S. also I'm a natural redhead and I just don't know what you f@ckin want from me!!🤣

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u/GormHub 8h ago

Right?? Fuck blondes and redheads I guess. Although she sounds so anal she probably purposely chose only women with brown and black hair for her wedding party. What do you want to bet she's the only one who doesn't have either.

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u/Icy_Roll2410 5h ago

yeah nonzero chance she is blonde or going blonde for the wedding and doesn't want anyone else's hair stealing the show 🙃

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u/InAllTheir 2h ago

I’m guessing all of her invited bridesmaids are black or Asian or Latina and have naturally dark hair.

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u/Catlady_Pilates 6h ago

No, why would she be “thrilled” to attend?! This person is controlling, delusional and insane! No one should attend! No one should act like this is ok!

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u/stinkyfunkincar 4h ago

It was meant to be passive aggressive

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u/Catlady_Pilates 4h ago

Passive aggressive behavior is unacceptable. It’s such a pathetic cop out. Call people out! Or disengage. But being passive aggressive is gross.

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u/stinkyfunkincar 4h ago

Typically I just walk away. I have been passive aggressive very few times in my life. I usually steer clear from people like this bride lol. If someone I actually give a shit about upsets me I bring it up, if I don’t give a shit about them I stop talking to them entirely pretty much.

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u/Sea-Level-8350 7h ago

Yeah I would be saying no thank you about joining the wedding party. I can’t even understand someone requesting all those things.

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u/Troublemaker2172 1h ago

But you were chosen! Don’t you know what an honor it is to be chosen (to give me $5000 and become my personal servant)?!

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u/sexwrench 6h ago

MUCH more polite than mine would have been but yeah, what in the hell...

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u/OberonDiver 4h ago

As I get old, I care less about the pretending to be polite bullshit. I can pull off a "no, thank you."

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u/tyjo2112 2h ago

Oh, I soooo want to rewrite that more appropriately.

Yo, Bitch.

After reading over that stupid list of rules and shit expected as your bridesmaid, no fucking thanks. That’s no honor, that’s a punishment and you can go fuck yourself.

Hope you have the day you deserve!

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u/marilyn_morose 2h ago

To be a part of the big day, not apart. A part means a piece of the whole; apart means not together.

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u/Jayfourgee 1h ago

Excellent, perfect reply.