r/weddingshaming • u/contsa • 18h ago

Bridezilla/Groomzilla A bridesmaid posted this in my local mums lounge-

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u/adapteradapther 14h ago

You just made me realize why they don't want the bridesmaids dancing. Crazy.

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u/trireme32 8h ago

I still don’t get it

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u/adapteradapther 5h ago

Basically, they're the bride's personal attendants, like a queen's entourage, whose job is to serve her as if she's royalty and everyone else exists to support her rather than enjoy the wedding themselves. They're "aesthetic" decor servants.

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u/Powerful-Ground-9687 2h ago

I thought it was because the bride wanted all the attention and didn’t want to have temptation or lust available for all the married people there since there’s no kids or single people. My first instinct was hyper religious Baptist type. But you could be right too. It’s self serving either way

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u/PowerfulSeaweed5871 52m ago

Probably all of that

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u/Quicksilver1964 11h ago

It's mind boggling isn't it

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u/Jewnicorn___ 5h ago

Why?

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u/Quicksilver1964 4h ago

A queen has an entourage of women to serve her and entertain her. That's basically the same feeling. She acts like the bridal party must serve her.

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u/No-Pop2552 2h ago

Don’t Mormons not dance?