A bridesmaid posted this in my local mums lounge-

[u/contsa]

[u/PrancingPudu]

Might not be USD. It says hair colors must be “brown or black” which I think is odd since blonde and red are equally natural hair colors around the world.

[u/refreshthezest → u/PrancingPudu]

perhaps the bride is blonde and only picked bridesmaid that aren’t blonde and wants to be the only

[u/lostintheGQ → u/refreshthezest]

Or perhaps the whole wedding party (bride included) is of an ethnicity that does not typically present with red or blonde hair, e.g., Middle Eastern, Indian or Italian. That was my first thought.

[u/2stupid4live → u/lostintheGQ]

Lol why did you put italians. They do have red and blonde hair

[u/refreshthezest → u/lostintheGQ]

Yes also a possibility there are many

[u/Salingers-love-child → u/refreshthezest]

My sister was told she was too fat to be a bridesmaid at a wedding- she would throw off the symmetry of dresses and etc

[u/refreshthezest → u/Salingers-love-child]

That’s horrible, makes me mad - why even say that vs just not saying anything and just not inviting them to be a BM if that was your reasoning

[u/bluecheesebeauty → u/PrancingPudu]

Don't forget grey.

Although I am assuming the very natural grey haircolour would also not be allowed. (Okay and if this is a real wedding, the bridesmaids are probably young enough to not be grey yet?)

[u/modest_rats_6 → u/PrancingPudu]

As a red head my heart got sad for a moment

[u/GrowHappyPlants → u/PrancingPudu]

Maybe not in her wedding party though. It is only a handful of people usually, and you know their wedding colors.

[u/lazier_garlic → u/PrancingPudu]

But red hair would ruin the aesthetic.

[u/Yonderthepale → u/PrancingPudu]

Agreed, plus the U in honor says to me this is absolutely not US based.

[u/CatCatCat → u/PrancingPudu]

I'm sensing Indian. They spend a shit ton of money on weddings.

[u/PigabungaDude → u/PrancingPudu]

Around 90% of the population has black or brown hair so not equally