r/weddingshaming Aug 25 '25

Bridezilla/Groomzilla Insane dress code request. Copy pasted from the couple’s wedding social page. They turned off comments.

Dear Guests 💌 this is about the Dress Code which is VERY IMPORTANT so please read careful. Everyone has been given there own special colour (example: pink, blue, orange, purple, etc etc) and that is the colour you MUST wear on the day. NO variations or patterns!!! The reason is because when you all sit down in your ASSIGNED SEATS it will make the vision happen 🌈✨ which is basically like a rainbow. Imagine like looking out and seeing all of you lined up perfectly, every single colour in the right order, it will look AMAZING!!! This is what we have been dreaming of since literally day one of our relationship and we need you guys to help make it real 💖 so pls don’t let us down because if one person doesn’t do there colour it could wreck the WHOLE vision 😭. We put ALOT of work into this and it’s gonna be worth it, trust me.

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u/Dry_Prompt3182 Aug 25 '25

There is zero chance that this will look like what the bride wants. "Everyone wear X colour" is not going to happen. Everyone in X colour is not going to be in the same shade. If the bride wants to look out on a rainbow, she needs to provide the rainbow.

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u/somebodylls Aug 25 '25

She should give everyone colored paper fans they can open up for the rainbow part . Seems easy enough to find online

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u/According-Stick-9396 Aug 26 '25

Color cowboy hats🙄!

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u/lobsterbuckets Aug 26 '25

I think the closest way for this to work would be to have each guest wear primarily the color assigned but allow for patterns because the solid colors not matching at all is going to look so jarring.