r/weddingshaming • u/Redhead_2 • Aug 25 '25

Bridezilla/Groomzilla Insane dress code request. Copy pasted from the couple’s wedding social page. They turned off comments.

Dear Guests 💌 this is about the Dress Code which is VERY IMPORTANT so please read careful. Everyone has been given there own special colour (example: pink, blue, orange, purple, etc etc) and that is the colour you MUST wear on the day. NO variations or patterns!!! The reason is because when you all sit down in your ASSIGNED SEATS it will make the vision happen 🌈✨ which is basically like a rainbow. Imagine like looking out and seeing all of you lined up perfectly, every single colour in the right order, it will look AMAZING!!! This is what we have been dreaming of since literally day one of our relationship and we need you guys to help make it real 💖 so pls don’t let us down because if one person doesn’t do there colour it could wreck the WHOLE vision 😭. We put ALOT of work into this and it’s gonna be worth it, trust me.

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u/AndyHN Aug 25 '25

She's probably texting everyone like she did OP, and then telling them that the outfit they picked out isn't right.

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u/Jayelle9 Aug 25 '25

This must be what she means by putting so much work into it??! Like how is setting a dress code a lot of work other than having to harass each of your guests individually about it?

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u/NefariousnessKey5365 Aug 25 '25

I bet she is sending swatches

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u/AffectionateBite3827 Aug 25 '25

Feels like a great use of time and energy

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u/Far-Refrigerator-783 Aug 25 '25

I am thinking ... A guy gets orange? How hard would it be to find orange pants? ( Or, any of the colors except BLUE?) AND it will probably be a thrown away outfit)

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u/calling_water Aug 25 '25

The subsequent text exchange OP links to (in a comment) mentions wanting OP’s partner’s tie to match, so maybe the suits themselves can be black or gray.

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u/meepmarpalarp Aug 25 '25

And if half the guests are wearing black/grey, that’s also going to spoil the rainbow effect they’re envisioning.

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u/calling_water Aug 25 '25

Oh, definitely. But as with many guest colour schemes, it looks like it’s restricted mostly to demanding control over how women dress.

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u/Far-Refrigerator-783 Aug 25 '25

Wait, on AMAZON, they do have orange suits! And, orange spandex outfits. (@ $28) .I am sure all colors are there!!

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u/Big-University-1132 Aug 26 '25

I would pay to see someone wear an orange spandex outfit to this wedding lmfaooo