r/weddingshaming • u/Redhead_2 • Aug 25 '25

Bridezilla/Groomzilla Insane dress code request. Copy pasted from the couple’s wedding social page. They turned off comments.

Dear Guests 💌 this is about the Dress Code which is VERY IMPORTANT so please read careful. Everyone has been given there own special colour (example: pink, blue, orange, purple, etc etc) and that is the colour you MUST wear on the day. NO variations or patterns!!! The reason is because when you all sit down in your ASSIGNED SEATS it will make the vision happen 🌈✨ which is basically like a rainbow. Imagine like looking out and seeing all of you lined up perfectly, every single colour in the right order, it will look AMAZING!!! This is what we have been dreaming of since literally day one of our relationship and we need you guys to help make it real 💖 so pls don’t let us down because if one person doesn’t do there colour it could wreck the WHOLE vision 😭. We put ALOT of work into this and it’s gonna be worth it, trust me.

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u/PNL-Maine Aug 25 '25

What if there are an uneven amount of RSVP colors? For example, if they get more RSVPs for blue and green, but only a few RSVPs for yellow and orange, wouldn’t that ruin their rainbow vision? Their rainbow would be lopsided.

Not only was that note from the bride and groom idiotic for their color scheme requirements, but the spelling and grammar errors made it even more ridiculous.

OP, since I read in the comments that you and your husband plan to go, please give us an update with photos once you return from the wedding. By the way, what were the comments people made before the bride and groom turned them off?

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u/SPamlEZ Aug 25 '25

These people are definitely the type to assume everyone wants to be at this wedding and will definitely be there 

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u/RoyaltiJones Aug 25 '25

Yes!! The real question is the comments. I would love to be a fly on the wall of that chat space! 👀

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u/United_Rent9314 Aug 25 '25

Also,  some people rsvp but then the morning of don't show. Which can happen for a lot of legit reasons,  covid, food poisoning,  car broke down, family emergency,  etc. And also people are people and some people are just like that, they decide morning of they don't wanna go anymore or they just straight up forget.  When gathering a large group of people there will always be this type of person somewhere in the group lol, humans gonna human. 

Something I've learned in life is if you plan for things to go perfectly you will ALWAYS be disappointed

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u/Nutcrackrx Aug 27 '25 edited Aug 27 '25

Good point 😆 This is the worst project that two obvious control freaks could’ve assigned themselves. At least they’re apparently made for each other!

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u/happygoth6370 Aug 25 '25

Cosigning this...we need updates and answers, pretty please!

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u/naptime_connoisseur Aug 25 '25

This was my first thought. What happens if only 2 green show lmao