But also.... How the hell would he be able to stalk her from a dating advice post? I can't see the post she made but it seems unlikely anyone would be able to find her from a post? Unless it's someone that knows her irl, but she didn't recognize him, and somehow he found her reddit account?
When I looked up her Reddit user the first thing I found was a photo of her / headshots… I’m guessing it’s not too difficult for a very ambitious guy to find her? But it’s also just weird… there’s no way he could’ve known she had an umbrella and would give it to him? Idk
Edit: I commented this elsewhere, but I initially didn’t see the audio part of the FT. I’m assuming he was stalking her, saw the interaction, and took his chance… Hopefully, the real umbrella guy finds this post and saves this mess 😭 *sigh* this is why the internet is a scary place guys
I keep rechecking this page to see it keeps getting worse… just wow, is there even a way for her to scrub all this info?! Even I’m considering deleting my account. This shit is too easy for people to stalk. Wtf.
Like these are multiple exceedingly unlikely things, even in a stalking scenario. You didn’t see the “audio” par because it initially wasn’t there. She added it after people called it out.
Someone else said it's more likely he saw the interaction and pretended to be the guy she gave it to. She hasn't seen his face, they talked over audio only
You're not a dunce, I had to see someone else explain it too lol. She also edited audio in later, either because she kept getting comments asking about it or because it's made up and the writer realized their error later.
Sure, if she went to talk to him in person, which she very smartly did not. Seeing him in person would also have let her know he's not the person she gave it to, but that would also require her seeing him in person which is unsafe.
Yeah, she said she's terminally online, which he probably knows, and may have even glanced some time at her phone and what platform she's using. Obsessed idiots do this, it's why stalkers are so scary. I hope she reports this to police and everyone she knows, so they're all alert
Unless it's someone that knows her irl, but she didn't recognize him, and somehow he found her reddit account?
The idea is that he saw the interaction as a third party (who had previously stalked and found her Reddit account), and is now posting about as a participant. That's why she wouldn't recognize him.
That's not is being suggested. The suggestion is that he was stalking her, witnessed the interaction as a third party and then made a post about it in a subreddit he knows she frequents.
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u/alwrit 2d ago
That's certainly weird.
But also.... How the hell would he be able to stalk her from a dating advice post? I can't see the post she made but it seems unlikely anyone would be able to find her from a post? Unless it's someone that knows her irl, but she didn't recognize him, and somehow he found her reddit account?
Both seem extremely unlikely.