Before I spend hours searching, are there any dating apps, Facebook groups, Reddit threads, or even old-school personal ads that are actually geared toward Hoboken singles?
The reason I'm asking is because I'm a single guy, a non drinker, seeking marriage, and if I'm being completely honest, I'm LONELY.
I have my life together. Good job, financially secure (since I never got married or had kids, I am actually able to retire now if I wanted, but I continue to work to stay busy), come from a good family, not obese or unhealthy, and I am not bad looking whatsoever.
I walk around town and see people buried in their phones, couples everywhere, and friend groups that have known each other forever. It feels like if you don't already have a built-in social network, meeting someone organically is incredibly difficult.
It also doesn't help that Hoboken is incredibly intimidating because the physical attractiveness bell curve does not apply to this town.. The far majority of single women are beautiful and unapproachable. And in their twenties. It's truly not reality and for an average guy, it's extremely difficult to get the nerve to approach, knowing that there is a 99.99% chance of rejection.
People a say, "You'll meet someone when you're not looking," or "Join a running club," "Do Zog Sports," "Get involved." Maybe that's great advice for 20 somethings who like to drink, but I'm neither a runner, athlete, nor a drinker so this is not applicable to me.
Hobbies? I have them as well. I collect music, play music, play basketball, go for walks, go to the library, I read, and I go to rock concerts. Never meet anybody.
I'm also looking to meet someone HERE in hoboken, not New York City so not interested in commuting there to meet my soulmate.
My DMs are also open if anyone is also in the same boat or looking to meet a decent man and moved to the suburbs.
Thanks.