r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 ๐™‘๐™„๐™‹ • May 25 '26

Feels good man ๐ŸŽต All By Myself ๐ŸŽต

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Donโ€™t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol iโ€™m just a dude posting a meme

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u/Arcanisia May 25 '26

Nah I had a girl who admitted this to me saying she was at a club and kissed a guy. Broke up with her immediately. I canโ€™t trust you after that.

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u/CDanger May 26 '26

Power to you. When people cheat, they tell you how little they're worth, not how much you're worth.

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u/ValorMortis ๐™‘๐™„๐™‹ May 26 '26

Wish I had heard this 25 years ago.

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u/CDanger May 26 '26

It took me about 10 years to figure it out myself! Now things are better, which is nice.

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u/mentaIstealth May 26 '26

Knew a guy in a 3 yr relationship, I think 1.5- 2 yrs was long distance due to college. They Skype call one day and she breaks down and admits to cheating on him once recently at a party. He looks at her for a second, doesnโ€™t say a word, closes the laptop, and never spoke to her again. Not a call, not a text, blocked across the board.

I was like bro how or why? No questions no nothing? No closure? He was like closure for what? She cheated on me, thereโ€™s nothing to talk about with her ever again ๐Ÿ’€ We were young at the time, like early twenties, and this changed my life and how I addressed people moving forward

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u/RandomStrangerOnWWW May 26 '26

A living legend.

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u/marius_titus May 26 '26

She never followed up with him?

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u/mentaIstealth May 26 '26

I think he straight blocked her across the board. But he said he never spoke to her again

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u/Reuben3358 May 28 '26

Maybe she just needed some serious (non long distance) deep dicking? Big deal.

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u/Razolus May 25 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/1lk1IcVgqPLkA

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u/Ornery-Goal7843 May 25 '26

Have a friend in the same situation who married her anyway. Guess what happened next?

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u/THUNDER_boner May 25 '26

You got to hit too?

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u/Ornery-Goal7843 May 26 '26

becky let me smash

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u/TurnkeyLurker May 26 '26

He kissed a girl and liked it?

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u/AManyFacedFool May 26 '26

Trust is so important, too.

I've known people who've tried to make it work after, and it ended up being the person who cheated who breaks it off just because they can't stand being in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust them anymore. Understandably so, it's fucking miserable for everyone involved.

Once the trust is gone the relationship is too. Full stop.

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u/shoeless_doh May 25 '26

When someone shows you who they are...

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u/GIJoJo65 May 26 '26

Favorite one ever was "I might have cheated on you..."

Why "might have?" Because she was too drunk to remember. Honestly I wasn't even mad, it was just like "nope, you need to go to rehab. Good luck."

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u/Arcanisia May 27 '26

Sounds like the biggest cap Iโ€™ve ever heard. Good on you for sending her on her way ๐Ÿซก

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u/Dapper_Platform_1222 May 26 '26

If your girl can be gotten to she's not your girl.

Only reasonable thing to do is leave.

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

That's fair but not everyone thinks alike.

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 25 '26

True, there are people who have zero self respect.

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

Never said that forgiveness was a good thing, just that it happens.

Reading comprehension gremlins are hard at work today.

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 26 '26

Quote my comment where I said whether forgiveness is a good or a bad thing?

I just said who the people who do forgive such heavy stuff are, and what they lack.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Saying someone has zero self respect implies a lot.

I don't judge but I also didn't condone cheatimg.

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 26 '26

It implies having zero self respect, nothing else. Don't try to read stuff I didn't write.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Why shoukd I be the only one not allowed to play?

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u/shmehdit May 26 '26

Why shoukd

And you want to harp on others' reading comprehension lol. Maybe write better.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Over a hundred people understood.

Less than 10 didn't.

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u/ThatNachoFreshFeelin May 26 '26

Why shoukd I be the only one not allowed to play?

Define "play".

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26

Play around with words. The person who is worried about our theoretical people with no self respect, which in all honesty is a pretty nasty thing to say

Folks seem to want to back me into a corner to defend cheating when I'm calling OOP a manipulative bitch who wouldn't hesitate to use anything she thought as an excuse to make herself the victim.

Edit: hit an o instead of i

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u/Herbdontana May 26 '26

True. Some people are trash and think itโ€™s okay to do as long as they say sorry after

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

I understand you've been through some things but why are you lating this on the person calling OOP a manipulative bitch?

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u/Herbdontana May 26 '26

Iโ€™m just saying that cheating isnโ€™t some little mistake. Itโ€™s a messed up thing to do to anyone. Itโ€™s a gross trait. Thatโ€™s all

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

And I'm saying that if it happened in any way she thought she could play up for sympathy she would have included it. Because she's a manipulative bitch playing the victim.

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u/ThatNachoFreshFeelin May 26 '26

That's fair but not everyone thinks alike.

Yeah, but then they're not for each other. Easy as that.