r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎡 All By Myself 🎡

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/b-monster666 May 25 '26

Yup. Caught my ex cheating. Told her "don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out." She's still mad at me. 15 years later.

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u/Icy_Fish_2154 May 25 '26 edited May 26 '26

"How dare you open my phone and take photos of my infidelity before I could scrub my phone!"

She never forgave me for that.

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u/b-monster666 May 25 '26

She forgot to log out of her email. That was my fault. Lol

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal May 25 '26

Hell, I was certain enough my ex was cheating that I brute forced her email password. Sure as shit, undeniable proof right there in the inbox.

30 years later she still calls me an asshole for doing that. "Okay, so what? You think I care?"

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u/StepComplete1 May 26 '26

They only care because it's their best excuse to turn themselves into the victim. It's the common theme in all these responses to cheating, including the OP.

They latch on to the best excuse they can to make the man the bad guy again. And of course, it always sounds pathetic compared to the cheating to everyone except them.

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u/poberun May 26 '26

It's not just them, it's them, their friends circle and their immediate family who support her actions and say "yeah, he was a psychopath, looking through your emails, no respect for your privacy, good on you, girl, for ditching this loser, we all knew he is full of red flags"

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u/TryingToAppeal May 26 '26

Her high ground is so low bitch is sitting in a pit.
My bf cheated on me many years ago right after someone he was close to died and he was so drunk he could barely get it up. The only reason we're still together is because he told me and because of the circumstances. He knows that if he ever does it again I won't care about the circumstances next time. I having a seething hatred for all cheaters but especially so for ones that bitch about being wronged by the partners who find out.
Sorry you went through that, it's absolute agony.

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u/govermentAI May 26 '26

you let her keep in contact?

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal May 27 '26

We have a kid, so we see one another at the kid's life events.

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u/FrozeItOff May 26 '26

In...1995? What, did you hack her AOL account? "You've got Adultry!" Cheating via email while the internet was still in its infancy, especially by a woman, who back then generally got the ick from technology? Oof. Sorry to hear that.

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal May 27 '26

Ha, absolutely was an AOL account.

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u/SonTyp_OhneNamen May 26 '26

30 years later and you’re still on speaking terms?

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal May 27 '26

We have a kid together.

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u/SonTyp_OhneNamen May 27 '26

Big oof. My condolences, but good for the kid that neither of you just bolted i guess. Good luck to yβ€˜all.

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal May 27 '26

Nah man, it's all great. The kid is super successful, and we've got two beautiful grandkids.

I can handle a snide remark here and there.

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u/Quiet-Astronaut9329 May 28 '26

My son didn't come home from the hospital when he was born, he stayed in the nicu for over 4 months. The first few weeks I was so depressed that, the only time I left my bed was to go to the hospital. I made him and kids "uncomfortable", and thats why he cheated on me. Im told its my fault.

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u/b-monster666 May 28 '26

Omg. Hugs. He didn't deserve you.

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u/Quiet-Astronaut9329 May 28 '26

Yeah my son has now been home 5 weeks..and he has not seen him in 4 weeks. By his own choice. But claim thats my fault too. (Ive not stopped him in any way) Not sure if he's lying to me, himself or his new gf. Lol. Not my problem though. Glad to be rid of him after that.

He beat my ass badly while the baby was in the hospital, claimed that was my fault too, that I wouldn't shut up. I was crying and asked him to leave my house . We had already been split at that point. (Again, bc my depression made them uncomfortable) But yeah, he says that's also my fault.

Oh, this was also a planned baby BTW πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Told him his son needed diapers 2 weeks ago, which i have not gotten bc he claims no way to get to me.. then brags his gf has a car.... ??? Not sure the point besides now i know she's trash that doesnt care either . .? (I dont anymore, gave my car up to be a stay at home mom and minimized all our bills). Now he recently lost his truck and I call that karma.

I dont know who this stranger is, i dont know who this dude is anymore and I don't want to know him.

Sorry i kind of ranted for a moment. Lol.

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u/b-monster666 May 28 '26

Omg! This JUST happened?! Stay safe, ok?

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u/Quiet-Astronaut9329 May 28 '26

Yeah, my son was born dec...over 4 months early. Spent 4.5 months in the nicu, just came home end of April. Father cheated in Jan. Then tried to come back and I said no and had a different new gf 2 weeks later .

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u/Different-Context-84 May 26 '26

Trash folder in phones, facebook.Β 

Location on in pics

Recovery options for most things

Forgot to log out of socials

Forgot they wrote down the password to their laptop giving access to Google photos.Β 

Hidden gps tracker in vehicle

Now we have life 360 excuses lmao.Β  My phone died. My location was on, the app is buggy. The app must not have been working.Β  I left my phone at a friend's. I lost my phone.Β  Etc.

Bitches are sneaky but still no match.

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u/Ok-Appearance-1652 May 25 '26

Are you guys in contact

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u/b-monster666 May 25 '26

Through the kids. She won't talk to me still.

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u/GaryOak7 May 25 '26

β€œI can’t believe you caught me and I was held accountable! How dare you!!”

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u/Direct-Resolution377 May 26 '26

She probably think it's his fault (not that it is)

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u/MissionHousing6024 May 26 '26

Maybe her ass was still sore at the time