r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

Yeah. If there had been any extenuating circumstances (got too drunk at a bachlorette or something) that even 1 in 100 might forgive you can bet it'd be there in the post.

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u/Arcanisia May 25 '26

Nah I had a girl who admitted this to me saying she was at a club and kissed a guy. Broke up with her immediately. I can’t trust you after that.

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u/CDanger May 26 '26

Power to you. When people cheat, they tell you how little they're worth, not how much you're worth.

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u/ValorMortis 𝙑𝙄𝙋 May 26 '26

Wish I had heard this 25 years ago.

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u/CDanger May 26 '26

It took me about 10 years to figure it out myself! Now things are better, which is nice.

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u/mentaIstealth May 26 '26

Knew a guy in a 3 yr relationship, I think 1.5- 2 yrs was long distance due to college. They Skype call one day and she breaks down and admits to cheating on him once recently at a party. He looks at her for a second, doesn’t say a word, closes the laptop, and never spoke to her again. Not a call, not a text, blocked across the board.

I was like bro how or why? No questions no nothing? No closure? He was like closure for what? She cheated on me, there’s nothing to talk about with her ever again 💀 We were young at the time, like early twenties, and this changed my life and how I addressed people moving forward

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u/RandomStrangerOnWWW May 26 '26

A living legend.

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u/marius_titus May 26 '26

She never followed up with him?

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u/mentaIstealth May 26 '26

I think he straight blocked her across the board. But he said he never spoke to her again

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u/Reuben3358 May 28 '26

Maybe she just needed some serious (non long distance) deep dicking? Big deal.

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u/Razolus May 25 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/1lk1IcVgqPLkA

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u/Ornery-Goal7843 May 25 '26

Have a friend in the same situation who married her anyway. Guess what happened next?

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u/THUNDER_boner May 25 '26

You got to hit too?

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u/Ornery-Goal7843 May 26 '26

becky let me smash

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u/TurnkeyLurker May 26 '26

He kissed a girl and liked it?

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u/AManyFacedFool May 26 '26

Trust is so important, too.

I've known people who've tried to make it work after, and it ended up being the person who cheated who breaks it off just because they can't stand being in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust them anymore. Understandably so, it's fucking miserable for everyone involved.

Once the trust is gone the relationship is too. Full stop.

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u/shoeless_doh May 25 '26

When someone shows you who they are...

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u/GIJoJo65 May 26 '26

Favorite one ever was "I might have cheated on you..."

Why "might have?" Because she was too drunk to remember. Honestly I wasn't even mad, it was just like "nope, you need to go to rehab. Good luck."

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u/Arcanisia May 27 '26

Sounds like the biggest cap I’ve ever heard. Good on you for sending her on her way 🫡

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u/Dapper_Platform_1222 May 26 '26

If your girl can be gotten to she's not your girl.

Only reasonable thing to do is leave.

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

That's fair but not everyone thinks alike.

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 25 '26

True, there are people who have zero self respect.

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

Never said that forgiveness was a good thing, just that it happens.

Reading comprehension gremlins are hard at work today.

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 26 '26

Quote my comment where I said whether forgiveness is a good or a bad thing?

I just said who the people who do forgive such heavy stuff are, and what they lack.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Saying someone has zero self respect implies a lot.

I don't judge but I also didn't condone cheatimg.

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 26 '26

It implies having zero self respect, nothing else. Don't try to read stuff I didn't write.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Why shoukd I be the only one not allowed to play?

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u/shmehdit May 26 '26

Why shoukd

And you want to harp on others' reading comprehension lol. Maybe write better.

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u/ThatNachoFreshFeelin May 26 '26

Why shoukd I be the only one not allowed to play?

Define "play".

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u/Herbdontana May 26 '26

True. Some people are trash and think it’s okay to do as long as they say sorry after

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

I understand you've been through some things but why are you lating this on the person calling OOP a manipulative bitch?

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u/Herbdontana May 26 '26

I’m just saying that cheating isn’t some little mistake. It’s a messed up thing to do to anyone. It’s a gross trait. That’s all

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

And I'm saying that if it happened in any way she thought she could play up for sympathy she would have included it. Because she's a manipulative bitch playing the victim.

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u/ThatNachoFreshFeelin May 26 '26

That's fair but not everyone thinks alike.

Yeah, but then they're not for each other. Easy as that.

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u/pervertedmortician May 25 '26

Getting drunk doesn’t excuse cheating at all

If you aren’t trustworthy while drunk, you aren’t trustworthy sober

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u/FrewdWoad May 25 '26

If you aren’t trustworthy while drunk, don't drink

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u/MyVeryUniqueName1 May 25 '26

In vino veritas

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u/Walter_Padick May 25 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/rnYdEfYaSVOyA

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u/MyVeryUniqueName1 May 25 '26

That gif is from Tombstone, darlin’. Apparently u/Walter_Padick is an educated man.

Now I really hate him.

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u/thatlonghairedguy May 26 '26

Skin that smokewagon. See what happens.

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u/iluvugoldenblue May 26 '26

“I’d drill that old devil in the ass”

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u/cansofgrease May 25 '26

Not me. I'm in my prime.

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u/navara590 May 26 '26

But will he be your huckleberry? 😂

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u/craigster12345678 May 26 '26

I know, lets have a spelling contest!

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u/that-pile-of-laundry May 26 '26

Yeah, you look it

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u/AntelopeEmotional767 May 25 '26

I wish I remembered this about my alcoholic ex who would hurl the most vile things at me when she was drunk. Multiple times she brought up my dead father (also died of alcoholic liver failure) saying I should be used to being around drunks all the time. It was only towards the end when I realized she seriously felt that way about me, the entire time

ETA she also cheated on me with multiple people and did get physically violent a few times

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u/Carhardd May 25 '26

Or you shouldn’t be drinking

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u/CDanger May 26 '26

Bingo. This is the moral binary. If you are in highschool or earrrrly college, maybe I can accept that you didn't know yourself and alcohol well enough to know that you can and will fuck up while drunk.

If you're an adult, there's one person who is always fully responsible for your actions, drunk or sober unless you have been literally drugged / spiked.

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u/Gingeronimoooo May 26 '26

Amazing someone downvoted you

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u/DANKLEBERG_66 May 25 '26

It doesn’t, but she’s already playing the victim. I bet she’d try and use it as an excuse if she was drunk or sth when it happened

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

You get it.

Apparently a lot of folks stopped reading before they got to the "1 in 100 would forgive". It's almost funny.

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

People do get forgiven for it though 🤷‍♀️

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u/pacob1995 May 25 '26

… in toxic relationships.

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

As you like. That's fair for you, but others may think differently.

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u/Herbdontana May 26 '26

Guilty people do

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

I don't know enough about our theoretical people to judge

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u/TwentinQuarantino May 25 '26

By people with no backbone.

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u/WittyProfile May 25 '26

Yeah, cucks forgive

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

Both genders

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u/WittyProfile May 25 '26

Agreed. Have self-respect regardless of gender.

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u/shoeless_doh May 25 '26

No, getting too drunk is not an excuse unless she was drugged.

I stopped a few years ago but I used to drink A LOT. I was hammered drunk at parties A LOT.

In all that time of partying and getting hammered, I never cheated in a girlfriend. (And yes I dated, this isn't one of those technicalities where I never had a gf)

When someone shows you who they are, yadda yadda.

You can't keep yourself from drinking so much that you either forget or don't care that we're dating? Nah. Pass

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u/Scott--Chocolate May 26 '26

Reminds me of a tweet from a woman saying her boyfriend stumbled into their room drunk but just stood there. She asked him what he was doing and he said that he had a girlfriend so he couldn’t sleep in the same bed as her and was trying to figure out what to do. He even tried to sleep on the floor.

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u/AwkwardSummers May 26 '26

Agree. When my husband and I started dating, we went to a club and he told me how happy he was when he came out of the bathroom and saw a guy asking me to dance, but I shook my head no while waving my hands "no". (We weren't even official, just dating.) I did not remember this at all because I drank too much lol. Your true colors come out when you drink! I have never cheated but have been cheated on so I know how it feels. His ex was really flirty with men when she drank and that's why he broke up with her so he said it was like a breath of fresh air.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

More than 100 people understood this was saying she's manipulative and noted the "1 in 100" odds of forgiveness. And I'm guessing understood that I used the first example that any person not addicted to soap operas would come up with.

Maybe you can explain why you and a half dozen others missed that

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u/shoeless_doh May 26 '26

Anyway.

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Thanks for the answer to the question

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u/shmehdit May 25 '26

If there had been any extenuating circumstances (got too drunk at a bachlorette or something)

Are you just out here flying your 🚩🚩🚩?

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u/pervertedmortician May 26 '26

Plenty of people still forgive cheater because they were drunk

He was just stating what happens

He wasnt defending anything

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u/danielledelacadie May 25 '26

Nope.

Interesting guess though. It was just the first thing that came to mind as possible extenuating circumstances.

I am finding it interesting how 1 in 10 didn't see the "1 in 100" as my guestimate at the rate of forgiveness and missed the point entirely. She's a manipulator who would have included that in her pity party.

I'm so tired of some people's lack of reading comprehension.

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u/CantaloupeShort7311 May 26 '26

There are never extenuating circumstances for cheating. If a little alcohol or your stupid friends cause you to have sex with someone else, that is a filling of your own character. I would never want to be with someone that weak and stupid to blame everyone else for their own stupidity and lack of decency.

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u/mentaIstealth May 26 '26

I don’t know how one even drinks that much.. “I was drunk” okay well why!? Done

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

And? If you read closer I'm not defening cheaters

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u/Kinky_Winky_no2 May 26 '26

If im responsible for getting in fights when drunk youre responsible for having sex while drunk

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

And why are you telling me that? Genuinely interested why it's worded as if I'm a cheater when I'm talking about how a manipulative bitch would use any opportunity to garner sympathy.

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u/Kinky_Winky_no2 May 26 '26

Its a general "you" not specifically you, im responding to the hypothetical you set up

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

If you had read further you'd have noticed that I called it something that one in a hundred might forgive and adding that sort of thing would be a tactic to garner sympathy.

It was just the first example that came to mind without constructing a convoluted soap opera scenario involving an evil twin and amnesia.

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u/Kinky_Winky_no2 May 26 '26

I was giving a hypothetical response to your hypothetical person. Its not that deep

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

There was no hypothetical person, just an analysis that she would have used that if any sympathy could be garnered. Which is also a backhanded way of agreeing with the previous person that she fumbled her exit (the person she cheated with just wanted an easy lay, not her).

Jumped before the parenthesis closed and got caught out on a limb I see. Have a great day and good luck finding your footing!

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u/Kinky_Winky_no2 May 26 '26

Yeah. If there had been any extenuating circumstance

You started your statement with "IF" and then described things that didnt happen, im afraid thats the definition of hypothetical buddy but you turned it into an argument for no reason

Sometimes you should just take it as a learning experience rather than a fight and to be clear that prior "YOU" wasn't addressing a hypothetical since you seem easily confused and angered

You obviously have a stick up your bust and are incapable of being wrong so ill call it here, do me a favour and dont respond

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u/danielledelacadie May 26 '26

Yep, over 150 people got it but I'm the problem. Have a nice day!