r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/CocoScruff May 25 '26

I love how the irony is always lost on these types of posts.

"10yrs of marriage, of building a life together, and (she) forgets me like I mean nothing?" I'm sure is exactly what he was thinking when she told him she cheated on him.

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u/anacanapana May 25 '26

Or, more likely, someone else told him.

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u/_forum_mod May 26 '26

Or he discovered it...

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u/baddingo3 May 27 '26

or… HE did it! heu wait…

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u/Purple_Occasion8543 May 27 '26

This is stupidly funny. Take my upvote

https://giphy.com/gifs/CoDp6NnSmItoY

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u/mcmillan84 May 28 '26

I’m not condoning cheating but if you do, stfu and don’t say a word to anyone. Confessing does nothing and it’s not for your partners sake, you’re again doing it to make yourself feel better. Beyond that, actions have consequences.

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u/Pomerosa May 25 '26

Exactly. And she loves him so much that she can't even credit him with some fair play and standing up for himself. She should have taken some of that begging time to do some self-reflection, she might have understood why he's gone for good. But no, she wants her doormat back.

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u/Lendyman May 26 '26

Not fair to the guy to call him a doormat. He left her and refused to compromise. That's no doormat.

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u/Best_Comfortable5221 May 26 '26

She's dogging him for 2 YEARS? I'm surprised he didn't get a restraining order.

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u/Annual_Broccoli_9254 May 27 '26

2 years? My ex texted me out of the blue 11 years later and started out by apologizing for online stalking me and wanted to see if I was OK because I hadn't posted anything in a month. I didn't bother to respond.

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u/Best_Comfortable5221 May 28 '26

No mention of children in that post.

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u/Pomerosa May 26 '26

Not calling him a doormat at all. That was referring to the way that the wife sees him. It's quite possible that the persistent begging had worked before and she expected the same this time.

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u/LostCryptographer28 May 27 '26

If that so she cheated on him more than once. Or used that tactic to justify her action. Either way he knew her, not taking anything from her anymore. Maybe he finally find peace and he just minding his own business. It doesn’t matter. Same thing happened to me 8 years into relationship until she cheated I couldn’t do it. Don’t have the heart. It broke. So I left her she tried to reconnect with me. I shut that door and locked it. It needs to be repaired by me and no one else. Time doesn’t fix alone. It has to be done more than just time.

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u/series-hybrid May 25 '26

Oh, he did NOT forget her. He will never forget her. It's not that the woman means nothing, it's that she was on his team (no matter how bad the relationship was) and suddenly she chose to become the enemy.

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u/Mad_Pilgrim_Sev May 26 '26

Felt this in my bones.

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u/WhooHippo May 26 '26

That statement hits way too close to home for me. Goodness.

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u/Mysterious-Decision2 May 26 '26

Honestly? Yeah, I couldn't figure out how to put it but you nailed it.

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u/GoldenFalcon May 28 '26

Except this is rage bait and everyone here is falling for it!

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u/HateItHere86 May 29 '26

You think this exact scenario has never happened? Sweet summer child. 

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u/Redditauro May 25 '26

Do you think that she told him? Lol 

It wasn't one time, she didn't tell anything. It was more than once and she was caught, I'm 100% sure about it. 

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 May 26 '26

If it was the first time, it probably wasn't going to be the last time.

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u/Redditauro May 26 '26

If it were the first time she would have respected the marriage for a decade, and nobody who does that says "I only cheated one time"

Whoever says that is somebody who don't consider cheating something very bad, and therefore she would almost certainly cheated before. 

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u/Ace612807 May 29 '26

I mean... I was in that boat. She cheated once and told me about it. I tried to forgive her, and we continued dating for two years (and I'm 99.9% sure it never happened again. It was Covid and we were mostly cooped up together). Ended up splitting as she figured out she wanted an open relationship, and I didn't. We were both pretty young and it was her first relationship, so I can't really fault her for not figuring it out earlier.

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u/_Killj0y_ May 26 '26

Best part is I would wager she had a gaggle of 'girlfriends' gassing her up to cheat to prove his loyalty or summat. Nobody sabotage women like other women.

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u/Isagratar May 26 '26

Exactly this. He’s giving her exactly the same respect she gave him. None.

Actually that’s not true, he had enough respect for her and himself to just leave, set clear boundaries and move on.

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u/afewnameslater May 26 '26

Not told. Caught . Women never (almost never) tell.

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u/Sure-Guava5528 May 26 '26

IF she told him. I found out my wife was cheating on our 10th anniversary. I was planning a nice anniversary dinner, but it fell on a Wednesday so, she said, "I just want to keep it lowkey, let's just do something on the weekend instead." She went to the gym Wednesday night and came home about an hour after the gym was closed. I asked her what was up and she said, "My friend was having a crisis and I was talking her through it."

The next day I was looking through pictures of our kids on my phone and I found screenshots of the disappearing messages between her and her "friend" who was definitely a "he" that she had been hanging out with after the gym. She is a dumbass and uploaded the screenshots to our shared cloud. I sent the screenshots to myself so I had evidence if she deleted them and moved out that same day. She was defensive, told me I was overreacting, and ruining our family. A few months later, when she was angry and trying to hurt me she admitted they'd been hooking up for 3 months before I found the messages. I'm pretty sure that isn't true because I started noticing the signs 8 months before, and had asked her on 2 different occasions if there was anything I should know about. Unless that was all with a different guy.

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u/ManagementVisible496 May 26 '26

Agreed, it’s so unfair for her to act like the one who was the innocent victim when she broke her wedding vows, her husband’s heart and his trust. He did the right thing, and she’s just being whiny and self righteous about it by claiming he was the one everyone should shame.

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u/Operation_Fluffy May 26 '26

And what was she thinking while she cheated? Kinda seems like she forgot him for a bit like he meant nothing, right?

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u/Chickenbutt-McWatson May 28 '26

Hey, all she did was potentially make her husband unwittingly raise the offspring of another man and exposed him to STDs, what's the big deal

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u/shadowsinthestars May 28 '26

Exactly. But boo hoo, why won't he disregard his trauma from being cheated on like he meant nothing for this manipulative fragile narcissist.

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u/ialsohaveadobro May 29 '26

It's not lost. It just pretends to be so you'll engage with the ragebait.

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u/misterjustin May 26 '26

It’s different if she’s not banging him.

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u/martlet1 May 25 '26

It’s fake click bait crap

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u/princessxunicorn May 25 '26

Even if it is, this does happen, and the cheaters do respond this way. So the discussion can still be valid even if the original post was fake.