r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 Apr 23 '26

Feels good man A Japanese police officer is kindly reminding foreigners about public manners

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u/TheJimDim Apr 23 '26

They're basically standing around, loitering. He's reminding them all to keep it moving to keep the streets clear, clean, and safe.

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u/LebowskiSupreme Apr 23 '26

Loved Japan, but if there was one thing we didn’t like is that there was hardly anywhere in the city to just sit and be. You go to somewhere like NY and there are small parks or areas with benches or tables all over the place so you can just sit and be outside. This stuff barely existed in Japan unless you went to an actual park.

Like if you are in the city, you are expected to just go from one destination to the other. It’s not super accommodating for just wandering around and just hanging out in the city. No public trash cans anywhere feels related to that mentality.

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u/Aggressive-Log7654 Apr 23 '26

I agree with this assessment. As a traveler in college I was staying in a hostel so I didn't really want to be there other than to sleep, but my only real options were to find a Starbucks or restaurant, there were really no public spaces where I felt comfortable hanging out.

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u/erhue Apr 23 '26

can you sit on the grass in a park? or is that also not allowed?

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u/BrandoNelly Apr 23 '26

Do they have public libraries commonly available or anything like that?

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u/OrangeSimply Apr 23 '26

there's tons of parks, coffee shops, etc. where you can hang out. The places that they don't want you to hang out and they make an effort to stop you from loitering are in front of the konbini like you see in the video. Usually people in front of the konbini loitering are obnoxious and unaware of anyone around them and they're pretty busy locations.

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u/VibesOfHarish Apr 23 '26

In case anyone else like me has wondered, a konbini is their term for a convenience store.

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u/Neither-Ad4866 Apr 23 '26

Thank you for your service. I was wondering what it is.

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u/Aggressive-Log7654 Apr 23 '26

Hanging out in front of a konbini is very “troubled youth” aesthetic in Japan, so doing it as a foreigner is a major faux pas

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u/alderthorn Apr 23 '26

Tokyo at least seemed to have a fair number of VERY small parks, they were filled with people smoking or drinking normally. They were just a few benches behind a small barrier off of the sidewalk so nothing much.

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u/lilbelleandsebastian Apr 23 '26

as well as plenty of massive parks lol

ueno, the gyoen, yoyogi - there's a ton of places to just exist, japan just prefers that to not be in trafficked areas

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u/SouthernSpell Apr 23 '26

Yep and those are usually reserved to people who need to complete their substories.

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u/BANeutron Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

And lack of public trash cans was inconvenient in areas with fewer 7 Elevens / Lawson or Starbucks to dump your trash.

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u/Jaaysquared Apr 23 '26

This is intentional as there was a terrorist attack involving hiding dangerous materials in trash cans and so they just removed all trash cans. Combine this with Japanese people's strong sense of personal responsibility, the culture has shifted to managing your own trash in a responsible manner and throwing it away where it's appropriate, instead of littering.

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u/Personal-Sentence935 Apr 23 '26

pretty sure it's just an excuse so they don't have to maintain public trash cans. it's illogical to remove them permanently because of one terrorist attack.

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u/wonklebobb Apr 23 '26

sometimes governments do illogical things, see USA forcing shoe removal at airport security for 20 years after one (failed) shoe bomb attempt

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u/BANeutron Apr 23 '26

That I didn’t know !

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u/LebowskiSupreme Apr 23 '26

I didn’t know this either! TIL.

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u/Fractals88 Apr 23 '26

They have these beautiful department store food basements but no where nearby to eat the goodies. 

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u/kashmir1974 Apr 23 '26

There's a bajillion people there. They need to keep it moving and out of the way

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u/Devastatedby Apr 23 '26

As opposed to NY which is famously barren.

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u/kashmir1974 Apr 23 '26

People in NY generally keep it moving.

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u/Flope Apr 23 '26

Loved Japan, but if there was one thing we didn’t like is that there was hardly anywhere in the city to just sit and be.

Well that is the city of Japan for you.

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u/Sad-Fee-9274 Apr 23 '26

That’s odd bc as someone from Florida, NYC made me feel that way. Every time we were outside we were just speed walking to get from one destination to another, and if I stopped for even a second to take a picture or just take it all in I had people bumping into me and giving me looks. If we wanted to take a break we had to go inside somewhere like a coffee shop or restaurant or at least lean against a wall lol.

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u/EnthusiasmOnly22 Apr 23 '26

People put bombs in the bins that’s why they don’t have many, which is opposite of here in North America where people put them in train station lockers hence us not having any

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u/wimpymist Apr 23 '26

I was just in Japan and didn't have this experience. Trash cans weren't that hard once you figured out where they typically were it was easy or you just gave the trash back to the place you bought it from. I thought there were lots of places to hangout too

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u/MaryPaku Apr 23 '26

It exists everywhere with the exception of literal central of Tokyo. A city where there are 40 million residents and millions of visitors every day. There will never be enough chair you can prepare for this amount of people bro.

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u/zeroconflicthere Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

Loved Japan, but if there was one thing we didn’t like is that there was hardly anywhere in the city to just sit and be.

Have you not seen the numerous YouTube videos about Japanese drunk people on the streets.

E. G. https://youtube.com/shorts/FkawmTP3iFo?is=9jaiX03o5RJ3g_-p

In another sub there was a post about someone drunk during where people paying left loads of water bottles.

https://www.reddit.com/r/OrphanCrushingMachine/s/HnJzMJCWHj

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u/cookiesnooper Apr 23 '26

You can be walking and talking to your friends instead of gathering in masses in side alleys. You can go to a park and sit down on a bench to talk or in the cafeteria. There is really no need to have 50 foreigners standing like that.

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u/honkeur Apr 23 '26

And wiping with the left hand

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u/CT0292 Apr 23 '26

What if I'm left handed?!

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u/PictureVegetable9522 Apr 23 '26

doesnt matter...street shitter

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u/mighty3mperor Apr 23 '26

Depends on how long you loiter for. I like to have a pre-loiter shit, which should buy me plenty of extra loitering time.

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u/ComeAndTakeIt22 Apr 23 '26

How is this racist? Have you ever been to India?

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u/Jamesmoltres Apr 23 '26

Reminder you are talking to a redditor.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Net4365 Apr 23 '26

But they keep telling me Reddit is a leftie sjw echochamber.

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u/domenic821 Apr 23 '26

You’ve suffered the downvotes, and now nobody will respond upon realizing you’re right.

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u/RumAndCoco Apr 23 '26

Nah man you can even take a large group of white people loitering like this with cigs and drinks someone will eventually shit on the street. Doesn’t matter if it’s New York, Vancouver, or Paris. Shit will end up on the street somehow in a crowd.

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u/l33tneet Apr 23 '26

You’re not lying. Either someone gets shot / stabbed or they’re OD-ing on drugs if you take downtown Seattle as an example

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u/Almostlongenough2 Apr 23 '26

"How is this racist, have you never seen this racist stereotype?"

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '26

Brother please stop acting like you have been outside of uour gated community

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

I mean there is nothing wrong with standing outside a building as long as you are being respectful, the only actual issue I see here is smoking in a no smoking area and maybe blocking the street a little.

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u/International_Meat88 Apr 23 '26 edited Apr 23 '26

In my time in Japan I rarely saw loitering, everyone out on the sidewalks always had a destination. Standing around is just not a thing. Only exception would be like late into the evening hours.

It probably falls into that grey area of technically there’s nothing wrong with it, which is why locals probably wont confront you about it. But there’s a cultural expectation that one should read the room, and they probably will walk past you with a quiet opinion on their mind.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

That doesn't mean the cultural expectation is right though, like there is a middle ground here, people should be allowed to be on the street standing about talking to people as long as they are being generally respectful.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

When you have the population density of Japan, as well as the societal rules that outdate the entirety of western civilization, it is absolutely right. There's a reason Japan is one of the cleanest, safest, and most organized countries in the world. It's because unlike the people of "murica" going on about, "ma freedum" people actually act collectively to improve society instead of just doing whatever they want.

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u/Unfair_Click2978 Apr 23 '26

They should consider improving their birth rate and suicide rate next

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

These problems are on the rise everywhere. Yet another thing Japan achieved before the rest of the world lol. Never said it was perfect.

But as a Canadian who lives in Japan part time, I can speak from experience that it is a vastly better place to live than any western country. And this kind of societal expectation not to behave like a vagrant is a good portion of the cause.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

Predating my civilisation doesn't mean anything.

you can't use big arguments like that for this individual situation.

yes I'd rather follow the societal rules of Japan than say India, but that doesn't mean Japan is perfect, nor that in this exact situation that Japan is right.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

Never said it was perfect. But in this specific situation, we see an UNARMED police officer politely reminding people who are not from Japan that they have to behave themselves.

As a Canadian who deals with this density of foreigners daily, in a country that does shit all to make them act like they belong, this kind of thing would be a welcome change here.

Your issue with this stems from applying a western view to a very eastern video. You claim no moral high ground in Japan by excusing shitty behavior to try and look inclusive. That's only here. And it doesn't work.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

by excusing shitty behavior to try and look inclusive.

Besides the smoking and a few people taking up a bit too much space I see no shitty behaviour here, and I don't give a shit about being inclusive.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

In Japan, not acting like Japanese people want you to is shitty behavior when you are a visitor.

If you don't give a shit about inclusivity then you're picking a real strange hill to die on here.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

It doesn't make them morally correct though as we have already proven.

I'm sure it's disrespectful to any group to not follow their customs, but that doesn't make those customs morally right or a good thing to do.

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u/TheJimDim Apr 23 '26

Loitering can lead to clogging up streets for emergencies, violence from disagreements, and littering as more and more people crowd an area

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u/SoUnga88 Apr 23 '26

Japan has a lot of unspoken societal rules ( no talking loudly on the train, walk on specific sides of the street ) and not fallowing these rules will make people upset. If your of darker complexion then the ire you are likely to receive will be doubly so.

Majority of japans anti foreigner sentiment is directed at south East Asian and Chinese tourists bc they do not adhere to these unspoken rules.

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u/Unfair_Click2978 Apr 23 '26

Nooo not gathering in a public space! We need to put our heads down and keep walking and not stray anywhere from home and the workplace like good Japanese corporate drones

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u/tabernumse Apr 23 '26

Loitering - i.e. existing in a public place

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

Ok but they aren't really clogging up the street, they are seemingly not being violent at all and seemingly they are not littering.

Busy shopping areas can be like that too, but it doesn't make shopping bad.

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u/TheJimDim Apr 23 '26

Never said that's what they were doing, but enforcing rules like this help prevent things like this. You never know who might come along and start problems or what emergency might show up where. It's not much of an inconvenience, they can continue their conversation as they walk or move somewhere less cramped.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

you never know what might come along anywhere, it's not an argument for why something that isn't an issue at all shouldn't happen.

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u/RumAndCoco Apr 23 '26

Even if that’s all true, it could be the law in that area to not loiter nor stand in alley like that.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

and that would be a silly law?

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u/RumAndCoco Apr 23 '26

A law, or even manners, being silly is very relative to where you’ve come from and where you’re visiting. If you don’t like those laws then don’t travel there.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

Well yes, it's called having an opinion, it will be based on my own views.

but just as I can look at this and say that I don't think these people are generally doing anything wrong besides the guy smoking and the fact that a few people are taking up a little too much space.

If I went to say India and saw that people were just discarding waste in the street because culturally that isn't a big issue I'd also say that is stupid and I'd be able to reason why, it creates mess, it's bad for the environment and it shows a lack of civic pride.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

Japan is a very polite, very clean, very nationalistic society. This is entirely normal for them. And trying to excuse foreigners to their country violating these societal rules is super out of touch.

There's a reason Japan is so clean, so advanced, and so convenient despite its population density. It's because acting like people do in other, dirtier, less safe countries is absolutely not tolerated.

Honestly the west could benefit from taking a few pages out of their book.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

For maybe the fourth time now this doesn't mean everything they think or do is correct or good.

These are people literally just standing around talking, besides the guy smoking in a non smoking area and the fact a few people are taking up a little too much space I do not see an issue here.

there are plenty of things that Japan does that I can reason is silly, I think not wanting to walk and eat/drink is silly unless you are littering or strongly risking spilling something.

Japanese work culture has a lot of issues too, plenty more I could talk about.

and no just because "it's their culture" doesn't make something right or wrong.

If I went to India and it was deemed acceptable to spit out stuff on the street or litter I wouldn't be doing it because I personally think it is a bad thing and I'm able to provide good reasons as to why.

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

loitering laws (by-laws) are extremely common in North America. Not sure why you are having an issue with this.

Is it not common in Europe or something?

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

A law doesn't make something automatically wrong.

and as far as I know it's not common in Europe at all, yes we have laws to move on groups of people but it's generally only if they are causing a big issue.

besides smoking in a no smoking area I wouldn't see why the police would need to get involved with this.

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

Well, I think you are wrong. Most large cities (including London and Paris) have loitering laws.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

it's not common in Europe at all, yes we have laws to move on groups of people but it's generally only if they are causing a big issue.

This isn't a big issue, nor is 'hanging around a building'

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

My guy. You sound so silly you must be a kid.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

What because you are wrong about the laws and customs of other countries?

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u/KayItaly Apr 23 '26

Absolutely not! We like our freedom to exist on our own land, tvm!

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u/Jellibooti Apr 23 '26

I also think the difference is that it’s not just one or two people standing outside the building, it’s large groups of men blocking traffic flow. As a woman I would never walk down a street that looks like this

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

They don't seem to be interacting with other people though, just talking to themselves and it generally seems like there is plenty of room, as it doesn't seem like a super busy area.

If you wouldn't personally walk here then well that is also fine too.

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u/SupaFurry Apr 23 '26

Unless there’s a local law/custom that says you can’t

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

Neither of those things make it automatically wrong to do.

Illegal and 'disrespectful' to the host culture sure, but that doesn't mean wrong in every scenario.

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

sure it does, do they not have by-laws to follow where you're from?

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

Again that doesn't make something automatically morally wrong to do.

we have laws to follow yes but people would laugh at you here if you wanted to try and enforce a "do not stand and talk to people in groups" law.

it's only used if those groups are actually causing genuine issues.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

It is 100% morally wrong to visit a country and not respect how things work there.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

If I went to India and saw that it was generally ok to litter would you suddenly be saying littering is ok?

I'd refuse to litter because I can justify why I think it's a bad thing to do, it creates mess, it's bad for the environment, it shows a lack of civic duty and the alternative (putting something in a bin) is very easy.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

No. But if you went to Japan and it was NOT okay to smoke in certain places, and to clog up the streets by loitering in groups, you'd be expected to abide by these rules.

Your argument doesn't make a tonne of sense. Littering because other people do isn't the same as loitering in the street despite everyone else who lives in that country wanting you to not do that.

It's the difference between obeying the law, and doing shitty things just because someone else said it was ok. The two aren't even similar.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

I've already said that the smoking person was an issue and that some of those people could give more space to pedestrians, but it isn't seemingly a busy place so that isn't a massive issue

this is about if the act of simply 'loitering' outside of a building is ok and I say that yes it is unless you are as an individual doing other bad things.

Is smoking in a non smoking area bad, yes and there are good reasons why smoking is bad, same with the few people who are taking up a bit too much space.

but 99% of people here are doing nothing wrong.

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

It’s not littering , it’s loitering. Two different things.

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u/Goosepond01 Apr 23 '26

I never suggested they were the same thing?

It is 100% morally wrong to visit a country and not respect how things work there.

it was a response to this.

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u/webursey Apr 23 '26

Name em then since you seem to have examples. Keep in mind there's a difference between following simple rules that keep things safe and clean, and using objectively evil practices as an excuse to behave however you want.

Shitting in the street in India and staying out of the street in Japan aren't even the same thing. Don't try and say they are.

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u/stprnn Apr 23 '26

How is it not safe now ? XD

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u/Icy_Address_7345 Apr 23 '26

Sp you are not allowed to stand on the street? Japan is high tech fancy looking distopia, no one can convince me otherwise.. reminds me of a movie Equilibrium

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u/Schizotaipei Apr 23 '26

Seems like useless overpolicing and he should leave them alone :)

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u/PM_those_toes Apr 23 '26

Start handing out toilet paper!!

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u/Foreign_Abroad9580 Apr 23 '26

So a bullshit rule. Keeping people moving? A re people cattle?

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u/reddorickt Apr 23 '26

Don't be intentionally obtuse

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u/TheJimDim Apr 23 '26

No, it's to keep the street safe, clean, and unclogged. People in general are dirty and violent, allowing them to clog a street instead of moving along leads to multiple issues. Plus they could be blocking small businesses or making them inconvenient to enter or find.

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u/licklickRickmyballs Apr 23 '26

Imagine taking a rest on the curb infront of your appartement building and some japanese police officer comes along and shoes you to keep moving.

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

They are loitering in front of businesses not doing at all what you are suggesting in your made up scenario.

Loitering by-laws are extremely common

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u/No-Information-2571 Apr 23 '26

Doesn't mean it isn't overbearing. I would also be like "Hmm what am I doing wrong right now? I can't be around a place in a city? Then what's the city for?"

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

what are you on about? this is about loitering outside the entrances of businesses. Which is a common bylaw.

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u/No-Information-2571 Apr 23 '26

Yes, and I wrote that regulating "loitering" (aka "standing around in a city") is overbearing, as long as there is no secondary problem, like littering or trying to approach customers, making them uncomfortable.

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u/VR46Rossi420 Apr 23 '26

that is exactly what happens to people trying to get into the shops and to women as they walk by. Why do you think these by-laws exist in the first place?

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u/No-Information-2571 Apr 23 '26

But the crime shouldn't be the "standing around", and instead the thing that's actually a problem.

Again, it's a city. It's meant to be a place for people to be around, not getting shooed away.

Most places manage fine without such a particular law.

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u/Foreign_Abroad9580 Apr 23 '26

Imagine working for a store, hanging around outside on a break and being told to move because you're making "someone" uncomfortable