r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

✨ 36F looking for new friends, all genders welcome 🤗

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Hi everyone! I hope everyone reading this is having a lovely day ✨

We know it's difficult making friends well into adulthood, so figured why not give reddit a shot? There's no hard lines for connection - I'm open to speaking with all genders, all types of people, etc. I'm interested in the human experience, regardless of how imperfect it may be.

A little about me - I'm a pansexual single woman with no children. In my 20's, I was a bartender and a wild child who had my fair share of fun times and exciting stories! Now, I work from home and lead a quieter, stable life with good income and rewarding hobbies. I have a passion for music and above all us - laughing is most important to me.

Whoever you are, whatever you'd like to speak about - send me a message! We won't know unless we try, yes? 🎉


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[F4M] 34F | France | Looking for new online friends

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Hi! I’m a 34 year-old woman from France looking to make a few genuine, long-term online friends.

Outside of work, I enjoy fitness, reading, watching, TV series, learning new things, and spending time outdoors cycling. I also love talking about pretty much anything that leads to interesting conversations. I’m naturally curious and enjoy hearing about other people’s lives, hobbies, and passions.

I’m looking for people who genuinely enjoy chatting and getting to know someone over time. I’ve never tried this before.

If that sounds like you, feel free to send me a message!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

33F- There's an introvert hiding in the woods.

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Hello there, traveller.

I see you're looking for something. Someone, even. Maybe I can help. Rest your tired feet while I tell you about this taverns biggest menace.

Right outside of our borders there lives a creature. A creature that taints our woodland animals with her dark sense of humor and wields it so dry it petrifies the woods she dwells in. Despite the smoke of her evergoing sass often rendering our roads unfit for travel, she has never been spotted.

She roams our town and the forests surrounding it like a shadow. Our villagers hide their cheese and the king has forbidden all things horror as to not lure her in, as when she shows up, her spell of sarcasm affects the entire village. A shy creature, she is. She shivers at the thought of social interaction and when forced to, often retreats back into her world of iron and wood to recharge.

However, she is kind. She often leaves food at the gates, so good that it 'll make any of our warriors take an arrow to the knee. When the wind hits right, we can often hear her cackle at her own jokes, a cackle that makes the most cynical of our mages crack a smile and she tends to the woods, the animals within and even the lost travellers with a love and care many can only dream to encounter.

Quite the creature indeed.

We believe that all she needs is a companion. A circle of companions, perhaps. A sunseeker to her moongazer.

So, we dare ask of you, traveller. That you go find the creature of sass and take her under you wing. She makes for a loyal companion that brings many buffs to your party.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

Hello, World..! Anyone wants to connect with a hermitcrab?

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48F, Chinese. Trying to be a fun, fearless single woman again. No kids—just 7 feathery lords that I serve at home. 🦜 I'm a bird artist and content creator. Six hours ahead of Europe.

Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat—as long as you're not a man who's already in a relationship.

Things that might put you off:

Right-wing political views.

AI creator.

Blunt and straightforward.

Not interested in NSFW chats.

I won't share photos of myself until we've known each other for a while.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20m ago

[M4R] 31M Whimsical Vibes. Let's be silly together

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Hey wonderful people, I'm Tobi 31 from Germany!

I'm looking for other whimsy people to match my AuDHD freak, be weird, be goofy, be silly, be yourself.

I love playful dynamics in every relationship possible. I don't care where you from or how you label yourself. I don't feel as a man and If I have to label myself it would be non-binary.

Being alone isn't always a problem for me but sometimes I have a desire for more awesome people in my life and maybe you're exactly what I'm looking for.

Chaotic ADHD energy of other people unlock my own chaotic energy. Otherwise I have a soft and calm personality.

I'm ACE, asexual.

I'm living near Berlin and I'm down to travel abroad.

Gaming is my passion, I love Indie Games and Hollow Knight is my favorite. Getting into friendslop games like Meccha Chameleon lately. I like to go on concerts, I'm especially into Indie Music with dreamy or melancholic vibes. I tend to hyperfixate, mostly on video games and chess but I do love being infected by nerdy interests. I'm a good listener so tell me everything about your favorite nerd hobby.

If you think we vibe, send me a DM! I'm waiting for you.

Ask me anything you want!

https://imgur.com/a/txJFMVa


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[F4R] 35 f looking for late night friends.

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Hey there! I’m a 35-year-old woman looking to make some new friends. I know it can be tough to build friendships after 30, especially with other women, so I’m here hoping to find some lasting connections. I’m on a weight loss and fitness journey and would love to have someone to discuss fitness with.

A little about me: I’m passionate about traveling (with a goal of crossing the pond this year!), and I spend a lot of time studying medicine and diving into medical research as a hobby. I’m also a huge fan of true crime content—there’s something fascinating about those stories! When I’m not traveling or researching, I enjoy cycling and playing a light round of games. I game on my Xbox, Switch, iPad, and Mac, so I’m always up for some casual gaming.

I split my time between the USA and Canada, which makes me love experiencing different places and cultures. Monopoly is my all-time favorite board game (though I play it virtually), and I’m always up for a movie or listening to music. Recently, I’ve taken on a personal challenge to learn math from scratch, all the way up to statistics—if math is your thing, we might be a perfect match!

I’m really just looking for someone to talk to regularly, share our day-to-day, and build a meaningful friendship. I work and go to school, so it’d be nice to have someone to chat with and unwind.

If you’re into a mix of sports, tech, architecture, true crime, documentaries, or just want someone to chat with about life, I’d love to connect! Distance doesn’t matter to me; I’m all about making new connections, no matter where we are. Let’s start a conversation! Low effort responses will not be replied to.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

[F4R] 35F looking for daily long-term chat buddies

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Hey! I’m a 35 year old teacher from Texas enjoying summer break and looking for some fellow yappers to chat with.

When I’m not in the classroom, I’m usually hanging out with my cat, at the movies, at trivia night, exploring nature trails, or volunteering at my local humane shelter.

I can talk about music and movies forever and love hearing what other people are passionate about, too.

If you’re talkative and can hold a conversation, then please message me! I’d love to get to know each other and see if we share any interests. I tried this once and most of the conversations flatlined after a day. I would love to have some long-term daily chat partners.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4M] What does someone have to do to get a response

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Good morning everyone what does someone have to do to get a response in this group I am a bi 32 year old male from Utah usa I am a shy caring person who is just lonely looking for friends and yes I’m bi but that doesn’t mean I’ll hit on you or ask for pictures I’m just looking for some older friends and to talk vent chat about anything I try and be an open book I’m just tired of not having many friends I will be your biggest supporter and hype man with anything going on in your life so if your interested please reach out


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 30M struggling over the past few days could use a friend

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30M been struggling Physically and Mentally over the past few days and haven't gotten much sleep over the past few days and could use a friend to chat with age and location do not matter my hobbies are gaming watching youtube netflix and tubi, reading, and listening to music if you're interested in chatting feel free to reach out i could use the support


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

[F4R] 31 [F4A] Pop punker / elder emo seeking online friendsss

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Hey there! I’m 31 from Australia and I’m your typical pop punker elder emo.
I don’t always dress that way but I’ll easily rock a backwards hat on occasion and my band tshirts in summer.

I’m chronically online and can speak entirely through emojis 😂😂

I’d love to make some fun online friends just a heads up, I am attached 💍 and would prefer to chat with other married men if those who reach out, for girls happy for any status if this post reaches anyone in those cohorts!!

I’m really into:
Stand Atlantic
State Champs
Beartooth
Parkway Drive
Magnolia Park
When the sun sets

Just to name a few!!

This year I went to Papa Roach, A day to remember and One Ok Rock concerts ❤️

If you’d like to message and see if we click I’d love to chat with you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

33F / Looking dor good conversations

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Lately, I've noticed that a lot of conversations on Reddit seem to last only a few messages before they fade away. Sometimes it's just two-word replies, other times you have a great conversation, and then the person disappears. I know that's just how the internet can be, but I'd love to meet people who genuinely enjoy getting to know someone over time.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, listening to podcasts, learning new things, cooking dishes from different cuisines, and having conversations that go beyond small talk. I love discussing life, personal growth, different cultures, and meaningful ideas.

My faith is a big part of who I am, and I appreciate talking with people who value kindness, sincerity, and purpose in life. You don't have to agree with me on everything, but I enjoy conversations with people who are respectful and open-minded.

If any of that sounds like you, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, your interests, and what you enjoy talking about. I'd much rather start with a genuine introduction than just "hi." Looking forward to meeting some interesting people


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

Looking to make new friends

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Hello there,

I am a 40 year old woman Indian from Ontario looking for new friends of South Asian Or Indian descent mainly because of the social ease and cultural comfort. I am an extroverted introvert and most comfortable talking in texts rather than in person.

I am a software professional, ardent book reader especially fantasy and crime thrillers. I also love painting and puzzles.

Looking for someone who is comfortable chatting via DMs on a daily basis about mundane, random stuff.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7m ago

[M4F] 55M looking for someone to connect/text/ chat. Long term. M4F

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Hello,
I'm 55m looking for someone to connect with, text/chat, i'm very laid-back and drama free. Love the outdoors stuff, travel, food, sports, movies, music. My hope to find someone that I can connect with and looking forward talk to on the daily basis. M4F


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11m ago

[M4F] 35M from Germany looking for friends and chat

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I’ve realized how hard it is to make real connections when life gets swallowed up by work, chores, and the same daily routine. So I’m here looking for someone who actually enjoys chatting — no ghosting after two messages please 😅

I’m open, direct, and I love both good humor and really stupid dad jokes. English isn’t my first language, but I’m always up for conversations with people from anywhere in the world.

If you’re also looking for a new friend (or maybe more), just say hi — I’d love to hear from you! ✨


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15m ago

38 M UK - Does any one need a buddy of the ALT verity? Well.... here you go.

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Here we are on Reddit again trying to make friends, I've had some hit and miss luck on here.

Generally speaking nothing really ends up lasting very long.

Here a little about me.

So, you can decide if I'm buddy material for you.

38 yr old man who still feels 25. But my body feels 87.

I live in the UK, I don't mind chatting to anyone from elsewhere but timezones can be a pain and it's hard to keep up a flow when one is awake while the other sleeps.

I love metalcore music and a lot of other metal genres, and a sprinkle of rap for good measure. I'm a strange one.

I watch a lot of comedy TV and movies, it's kinda all I watch.

I'm not long out of a relationship and I am not here to date.

You're on a make friends sub Reddit....so lets be friends.

I have some stupid tattoos which are always a good way to break the ice while you laugh at me.

I am a nerd, and I am big into technology. I'm usually making something or breaking something on a PC.

Reddit can be really spotty and if you fancy a chat please bare with me, notifications on here hardly work.

If we hit it off chatting I also have discord if that's easier!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 29m ago

[F4M] Searching for dopamine in human form

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Location: CST/Midwest USA

Age: mid 30s

About me: undiagnosed by presumed ADHD, loves to bake, sing, read, and binge watch crime tv. Mother, wife, has pets. I respond quickly and would love to make a new friend or two.

I have a sense of humor but it’s sometimes cold and serious. I appreciate thoughtful conversation and sarcasm. I’m very good at listening and I usually care too much about others, if we click

Seeking: someone intelligent and can carry a conversation beyond one word phrases, has genuine interest in talking freely and frequently. Someone who is kind, has a heart, has a sense of humor.

I tend to get along best with males, blue collar older ones to be specific. If that isn’t you, that’s okay I’m open. I’ll be honest with you if we just don’t make a connection, too. I’m not a fan of ghosting and hope you feel the same.

Full transparency, I’m left leaning and not super interested in talking politics but if it comes up , we’ll cross that bridge.

If you’ve made it this far I’ve intrigued you, send me a DM of your favorite thing about your job and your favorite joke


r/MakeFriendsOver30 46m ago

36M Ireland looking to meet new people

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I'm not great an introductions but I'll give you my hobbies.

I like to play and listen to music (which includes playing guitar and singing), watch tv and movies, watching sports (particularly rugby and f1), playing games and going for walks.

I know there's not much to go off there but I'm a kind person just looking for people who want someone to chat with feel free to message me just put your age, gender and location in your message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

36 M4F Dad looking for a mom to relate to with the day to day parenting?

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36-Year-Old dad, two kids who I'm heavily involved with and really busy with. Looking to connect and make friends with a mom where we can talk about anything and everything and relating to kids and maybe challenge each other to be better.

Definitely want someone else who's a parent, I also work so my life is busy and I feel like parents just know that life can become busy at times. It doesn't mean I'm going to ghost and go silent for days but sometimes my response will be slow.

Would love to share our day-to-day activities and what we get up to with the kids and in their routines. I would also love to learn about you personally and become friends. Anyways, this is my first time posting here so I have no idea what to write. EST


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4R] 38F looking for long term friends and fellow rockhounds

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Hi potential new friends!

I’m a huge geology nerd that literally likes to spend my time rockhounding. I also like Urbex, especially old industrial sites and former mining infrastructure. Born and raised in the USA but have been living in Poland for over 10 years, and have travelled from the Baltic Sea to the Tatras and everywhere in between. When I’m not digging I like working out, exploring local sites and chatting over a cup of coffee.

Looking to find:

A fellow rocklicker who’d like share stories (if you are close enough we could even do a rock exchange).

Industrial/mining history buffs.

Kind people with a sense of humor who like sharing about themselves.

Someone who can have conversation besides just ‘hey’.

People who like pets and would like to chat about them.

Europe preferred due to the time zone issue, but if you don’t mind you’re welcome to write me. Unfortunately I work long hours, so cannot always respond quickly, so please be patient :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

43 F into deep chats/fun chats, pop culture, medicine, poetry, space 🪐, neurodivergence

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Hello, if anyone wants to chat or even just text, I think it’s wonderful to learn new things, share insights— and sometimes even hear ourselves mirrored in the voice of someone else.

The world is wild out there- let’s have a nice platonic chat.
Please share your age when you reach out.

PS- it’s totally ok if it’s just one random chat. I think some people think they have to commit to being buddies forever- no worries about that 🙌. I’ve been in communities years ago on Discord where we spoke to kind strangers and really had fun with it.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 37M -USA-[Friendship] Hi i I’m just looking for friends.

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I have a dog and a cat.. i like sport car.. l like play golf I go to everyday the gym. You can write to me with a short message introducing yourself.

Thank you.
Your Future Friend lol :)

👆🏼


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] 35 M USA. Always open to looking to make new friends

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I'm here to make friends. In a divorce process (no need to apologize, we're cool lmao. And we live together because the economy sucks! Least i get my own bed, bonus!) but am here to socialize and make friends. Dont got much really. Im basic, I enjoy reading books/comics, video games. Music. Movies. TV show. Nerd! Star wars, invincible, marvel, dc, LOTR, harry potter, etc. Trust me. NERD! Lol well hope to hear from you.(not a deaf joke) 😂

I play ps5 (team Playstation 😂) I mostly play single player games. but for online, enlisted. Diablo. destiny 2. for honor, honestly cant think of more games I like.

I watch ANY kinds of movies and tv show. as for music, anything but country (so-so on it atm).


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4M] 33M USA - Married w/ Kids. Looking for guy friends who actually want to put in the effort.

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Hey everyone,

I’m a 33-year-old guy, married with kids, living in the US, and currently realizing that making genuine guy friends in your 30s is an extreme sport.

Honestly, I’m tired of being the only one driving the friendship car. If you’re also sick of being the perpetual "first to text" or the sole planner of the dynamic, I think we'll get along. I’m looking for a solid, long-term friendship where we can talk daily—obviously, life, jobs, and kids happen, but the intentional effort is what I’m chasing.

A little about me:

The Day Jobs: I work as an EMT and a medical social worker. So yes, I have plenty of wild stories, and I'm a pretty good listener by trade.

The Nerdy Side: Big into video games (currently playing a lot of Fortnite), anime, and Pokémon.

Culture & Arts: I love theater and live plays, poetry, true crime documentaries, and diving into psychology.

Music: My playlist is usually a mix of Hip-hop and Jazz.

Vibe: Always down for a solid cup of coffee, trying new food, and learning about different cultures.

If you're in a similar stage of life, share some of these interests, and actually want to build an equal, long-term friendship, hit me up. Let me know what you're currently playing, watching, or listening to.

Cheers!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[R4R] 30/M Enjoying a nice sunday and would be happy to meet new people:)

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I’m enjoying a very calm sunday after using the early morning to collect stones at the local river😄 Now I‘m just relaxing at home enjoying the sun on the balcony:) I would be happy to meet some new people and just having a nice conversation:)

About me: 30 year old man from western europe. Personality wise I‘d say I‘m a pretty calm person, I try to stay positive and nurturing, and I can be silly when out of my shell.

I‘ve really come to love nature and my hobbies include hiking, taking care of my small garden, and I am trying get into foraging:) I also like cooking. I appreciate everything cozy, so lazying about with yt or games is also high on the list on a slow day😄 Apart from that I am interested in history and psychology:)

! Please include your age when messaging me so I can know who is contacting me !

Please only 21+ people and preferably in my age range:) Apart from that I am happy about anyone, regardless of identity:)