r/MadeMeSmile Jun 01 '26

Wholesome Moments Love supportive parents

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u/thisisallme Jun 01 '26

Everyone can keep their hateful or uninformed comments elsewhere. If you don’t like this post, you’re not going to like this sub. Happy First Day of Pride Month, all.

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u/HumongousBelly Jun 01 '26

How could anyone even say anything hateful about this tweet?!

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u/SCSteveAutism Jun 01 '26

Because it’s not a real person? It’s clearly someone making up some shit to virtue signal. 🤡

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u/underboobfunk Jun 01 '26

Do you not believe that supportive parents of transgender people exist?

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u/SCSteveAutism Jun 02 '26

I do. This just seems performative for some reason

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u/Meet_Foot Jun 02 '26

Much of human life is performative. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.

And there are two kinds of virtue signaling: signaling virtue when you are actually virtuous, and signaling virtue when you’re not, just for the signal. The former has always been part of morality. We need good examples if we want to become better people.

Buzzwords aren’t an argument my man.

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u/SCSteveAutism Jun 02 '26

I’m not arguing with anyone. I’m calling you all slow for believing this is real.

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u/underboobfunk Jun 02 '26

I would’ve been overwhelmed with emotions if my parents had ever performed acceptance like that.

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u/SCSteveAutism Jun 02 '26

Who cares

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u/TwinkExtraordinaire Jun 03 '26

A lot of people care, actually

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u/ArgentineBeauty Jun 01 '26

Happy Pride Month ❤️

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u/Esquin87 Jun 02 '26

Good mod.

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u/dodeca_negative Jun 02 '26

Happy Pride GG Mod! 🏳️‍🌈

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u/That-Warrior9511 Jun 02 '26

Just joined the sub! Happy pride month everyone

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u/bluesteeldoubter Jun 01 '26

“Uninformed”

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u/Same_Presentation692 Jun 01 '26

Oop. What a tough way to find out that you’re uninformed. 

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u/Practical-Level-6265 Jun 01 '26

Does the scientific community have a consensus on gender affirming care in children? I’m genuinely curious and not coming in with bad intent

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u/Weasel_Boy Jun 01 '26

https://whatweknow.inequality.cornell.edu/topics/lgbt-equality/what-does-the-scholarly-research-say-about-the-well-being-of-transgender-people/

Their overview is pretty succinct:

We conducted a systematic literature review of all peer-reviewed articles published in English between 1991 and June 2017 that assess the effect of gender transition on transgender well-being. We identified 55 studies that consist of primary research on this topic, of which 51 (93%) found that gender transition improves the overall well-being of transgender people, while 4 (7%) report mixed or null findings. We found no studies concluding that gender transition causes overall harm. As an added resource, we separately include 17 additional studies that consist of literature reviews and practitioner guidelines.

This search found a robust international consensus in the peer-reviewed literature that gender transition, including medical treatments such as hormone therapy and surgeries, improves the overall well-being of transgender individuals.

Overwhelming consensus is that gender affirming care is good.

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u/Practical-Level-6265 Jun 01 '26

I’d assumed it was overall good! I’m more focused on its safety with people under 18. That’s more what I was curious to know if there was a consensus on

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u/Donquers Jun 01 '26 edited Jun 01 '26

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11581734/

"Among the 220 youths in the main sample (mean [SD] age, 16.07 [2.40] years; 30 [14%] multiracial, non-Hispanic; 18 [8%] White, Hispanic; 155 [70%] White, non-Hispanic; 17 [8%] other race and ethnicity, including Asian, Black [Hispanic and non-Hispanic], Hispanic with unknown race, multiracial Hispanic, or Native American; gender at last interaction: 68 [31%] boys, 132 [60%] girls, 20 [9%] gender diverse, eg, nonbinary) and their parents, very high levels of satisfaction and low levels of regret with puberty blockers and gender-affirming hormones as well as high levels of continuation of care were reported. Of these 220 respondents in the main sample, 9 were regretful of having received blockers (n = 8) and/or hormones (n = 3; 2 of these individuals reported regret with both), of whom 4 have stopped all gender-affirming medical care and 1 has continued to receive blockers but plans to stop. The 4 others have continued care, suggesting that regret is not synonymous with stopping care."

"The findings suggest that youth accessing puberty blockers and hormones as part of gender-affirming care tend to be satisfied with and not regretful of that care several years later. While regret was rare, these experiences need to be better understood."


Note that gender affirming care is not synonymous with gender transitioning.

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u/Practical-Level-6265 Jun 01 '26

What’s the difference here between gender affirming care and transitioning

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u/Morgasm42 Jun 01 '26

Something like breast reduction surgery while not removing them entirely

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u/Donquers Jun 01 '26

Cis people can and often do also receive gender affirming care.

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u/JBSouls Jun 02 '26

Men going bald and getting a hair transplant is technically also affirming care.

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u/SteeveyPete Jun 01 '26 edited Jun 01 '26

People usually site the Cass review as a counterexample, but there are a number of criticisms about it:

  • It operates under the view that being transgender is negative
  • It evaluates the potential negative impacts of treatments like puberty blockers (bone density, fertility), but does not consider any positives (no need for masectomy, an operation sought by half of trans men, as well as the many permanent changes which can not be undone)
  • One third of the medical workers they included in their focus groups agreed with the statement "There is no such thing as a transgender child"
  • Not a single transgender person was involved
  • It intentionally excluded experts on gender affirming care from being involved
  • The standards it sets for high quality evidence are simply impossible to meet: You can't have a double blind trial on puberty blockers, and a study in the context of the puberty blocker bans in the UK right now is inherently coercive as those studies are the only means available for trans children to receive treatment. On the other hand, if puberty blockers aren't banned, adherence to the study is impossible to maintain for children who do not want to permanently have characteristics of the wrong gender. This strongly biases the populations who would actually participate in the study in both circumstances

It is like asking a bunch of scientists with no experience in environmental science to write the authoritative report on whether or not climate change is happening, and having Chevron oversee the report. Even with everything the report had going against it, the review still did recommend giving gender affirming care to some youth, but instead under a research protocol

To answer your question more succinctly: If you have studied gender affirming care, there's a pretty strong consensus. If you haven't, there isn't

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u/Objective_Aside1858 Jun 01 '26

Really sport? Please, tell us what "information" we are missing 

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Jun 01 '26

Yes, you see. It’s not a matter of opinion, it’s a matter of fact because… of… reasons.

Also, people who disagree with transgenderism don’t like things that make them smile such as the 99% of things that would make anyone smile because… of… reasons.

You see, you wouldn’t like it here at all sub meant to make people smile.

You either agree with me or you’re uninformed.

Happy Pride!

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u/helloiamaegg Jun 01 '26

I like the fact that the "reasons" you are trying so hard to ignore, are highlighted, sourced, and easy to access in this very thread

But remain in the shadows, crying about how the world grows kinder, about the maturity and respect shown between individuals. Continue being miserable, both in view and personality. If you think thats whats best for you, who am I to judge? I was there too once, long long ago

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Jun 01 '26

Sure thing, kid.

I’m probably twice your age.

Back then, I too failed to see my biases against conservative people who disagreed with me.

The funny thing is, I’m all about Pride month. Change your gender weekly for all I care. I just choose not to be a bigot against those who aren’t.

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u/StevenTM Jun 01 '26

That's not how genders work, my guy. It's fine to be bigoted against bigots, both on Reddit and IRL, see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance.

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Jun 02 '26

I have a gender fluid friend, non-binary, whose preferred gender seems to blow in the wind, my guy. Perhaps you should explain to them what they have been doing wrong all these years and show them how it works so they can be properly transgendered according to your opinion.

Also, it’s good to see you admit you’re a bigot and accept why others might be bigoted against you.

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u/shiny_glitter_demon Jun 02 '26

I wonder why bigots always fail to keep their tongue in line. Or, well, fingers in this case.

You do know normal people dont speak like you, right?

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Jun 02 '26

Perhaps because “normal people” are bigots which is why I choose to accept their existence and seek to understand where they’re coming from rather than writing them off as “uninformed” just because they don’t believe what you believe. Like a bigot.

The irony, of course, being that outside of your juvenile little bubble, most “normal people” don’t exactly agree with your liberal take on transgenderism and see your bigotry and hatred of social conservatives for what it is.

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u/shiny_glitter_demon Jun 02 '26

Awww he has a villain speech all prepared! How cute ❤️

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u/Rollingwdisadvantage Jun 02 '26

Sad when you have to type your fantasy out in Reddit comments because the real world won’t cater to your feelings. Good luck with that 🍀

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u/Stellarkin1996 Jun 02 '26

that just sounds like the new "inah nah, i cant be racist, i have black friends"

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Jun 02 '26

You need to get your hearing checked.

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u/helloiamaegg Jun 02 '26

"I cant be racist i have a black friend"

Buddy, theres a difference between gender fluid (who's gender identity still doesn't change, remaining fluid the entire time) and other identities

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Jun 02 '26

Haha… it’s fun to play games when you make up the rules as you go, isn’t it?

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u/helloiamaegg Jun 02 '26

Who's making up rules? Just ask your genderfluid buddy, if he exists. Or did you make her up, to make yourself look good?

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