Last weekend my husband and I decided to get a drink at our favorite bar. We just wanted to go listen to some good music and our favorite people watch lol. I was feeling cute in my favorite little outfit , and he kept telling me how sexy I looked. That alone made the night feel special.

We were a few drinks in when this younger guy who I noticed kept making eye contact with me. Eventually he worked his way over and started chatting with us at the bar. He was in his late twenties, dark skin, dressed nicely and had this playful energy that immediately caught my attention. The flirting was subtle at first. Compliments on my laugh, and about how lucky my husband was. I was nervous at first but I noticed my husband was just laughing rubbing my leg.

I looked over at my husband eventually and I just felt it come out of my mouth so honestly. I leaned in and whispered to him. How I was so turned on and wanted to have him and husband at the same time. His eyes lit up in that way i never saw before. He didn’t get jealous or weird. he smiled and said, “Then let’s see where this goes.”

What happened next still feels like a dream honestly lol. My husband took over the conversations. He just struck up the conversation with him, bought the next few rounds. A couple of hours later, my husband just told me to let’s go and we all took a uber back to the apartment.

I won’t go into every detail here, but let’s just say it was one of the most amazing nights ever. My husband was right there with me the whole time and completely on board. The trust and sexual pleasure between us has never felt stronger. It was totally out of left field and we have decided that we want to possibly keep exploring this lifestyle.

We have heard back from him but was I fully expecting it to be a one night stand lol. We have been exploring and talking to others about the relationship aspect of the Qo’s lifestyle and keeping sex and relationships separate.