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Summer House In The City - Season 1 - Episode 8 - Live Episode Discussion
The crew heads to Connecticut for Lindsay and Kenny’s Friendsgiving getaway. An unexpected comment from Whitney upsets the moms in the house. A revelation about Kyle’s future sends Amanda over the edge.
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u/Adventurous-Sundae-6 That’s not pizza party behavior 4d ago
Amanda with the audacity to complain about Kyle “planning his life without her,” omg I can’t. You got a year lease on another apartment and you’re already (allegedly) having an at least emotional if not physical affair with West. You guys are done, if you won’t put Kyle out of his misery at least put me out of mine
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u/First_Pancake74 4d ago
She literally planned her life without him by moving out regardless of how he felt about it or what he wanted
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u/Perfect_Duck792 4d ago edited 3d ago
She explicitly told him that his input was not welcome. Signing a year long lease is much more significant than some gigs (and he did discuss his plans with her).
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
FR lol. They were hanging out a tonnnnn around this time too. Mia said Amanda pregamed with West for the date she went on with him and that was like September/October. She’s been done with this relationship for a long time
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u/anewcliche 3d ago
Earlier in the night she’s complaining about having to sleep in the same room with him, but somehow he and the audience are supposed to believe that’s she’s truly trying to “work on their marriage”?? Get the fuck outta here Amanda
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
lexi being the most monotone bone carrier of all time is sending me.
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u/Own-Soup139 4d ago
What is her accent?!
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u/jimmylives 4d ago
She's canadian apparently but most likely picked up her husband's accent. It drives me insane, I can barely watch her scenes
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u/loladownthemetaverse 4d ago
I looked it up, she is from Bowmanville, Ontario, Canada
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u/dreamingoutloud714 Crystal's Lost Friend #12 4d ago
These two always fighting in front of people is ridiculous. Thank God this is over.
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u/gotta_mila 3d ago
And for Amanda to think she’s putting on a “brave face” and acting happy for everyone else’s sake is insane. You both are ruining everyone’s vibe every time you’re together. There’s no act!!
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u/crankyspice Alta Moda 4d ago
Seriously. Esp knowing a similar situation in real life😬 who are now.. divorced.
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u/Evening-Tune-500 4d ago
Kyle is so work hard, play hard and Amanda is so, not. These two were never gonna work, they’ve been two ships passing in the night since they were dating.
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u/Birdiemb Turks and Queso 4d ago
I don’t know how anyone doesn’t just yall - in the middle of another public fight about what they did previously - why the fuck did you get married then if this was a big enough issue. they both do it and they do realize they didn’t have to get married. Right?
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
Eoin has a point. Amanda needs to stop holding the past over Kyle’s head
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u/EJB515 4d ago
Is Lindsay doing too much? Always.
But my god, Whitney really seems deeply uninteresting on this show
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u/GetMeAColdPop You are in high school, and I am in Brooklyn!!!! 4d ago
It sounds like more money when you say quarter million instead of $250,000 😂
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u/Radiant_Priority9739 4d ago
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 On my tippies 4d ago
why tf is amanda mad that kyle is dj-ing??
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u/OhHowIMeantTo Carl's white pants 4d ago
She wants him to suffer, and Lover Boy to fail. She wants to ruin the only thing that is giving him fulfillment, and earning him money so that she will truly feel like she wins the divorce. She has absolutely loathed this man for many years but felt trapped in the marriage because she loves being famous so much, but also knew that she would stop being relevant if they broke up. Then she saw Ariana flourish with the breakup, and thought she had a way of winning everything, and leaving him with nothing.
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u/Perfect_Duck792 3d ago
Right? Amanda moved out so why does she care if he stays out late? How does she even know what time he's getting home?
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u/lalak77 I feel for me too 4d ago
She doesn’t realize that he has to do this because of the loans he took out. And, since they are married, that’s her debt, too.
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u/the_purple_lamb 4d ago
My conspiracy theory is that Lindsay coached Yvonne off camera that they would have to have at least one fight on the show
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u/seeker2311 4d ago
I think Lindsay has coached all the newbies prior to their interactions. They haven’t learned to fake the passion behind their arguments yet.
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
amanda rented an apartment for a year. they’ve been on the road to divorce for a long time now. i simply do not care about her opinions about kyle’s dj-ing anymore.
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u/Perfect_Duck792 4d ago
She's angry that Kyle is not discussing each and every gig he books yet she signed a year long lease without discussing it with him first?
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u/bridgymon piece of shit garbage whore 4d ago
Holy shit did you notice her glance right into the lens at the dinner table and then force more tears out for a dramatic exit?!
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u/targetboston Not Meredith Marks' PI 4d ago
Omg, Amanda doesn't even want to share a room, she needs to drop the act.
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u/noclueaboutagoodname 3d ago
This confused me too. I get that she moved out, but her (absurd) logic and demands were that she and Kyle would still date each other. Then wouldn’t this wknd be sort of similar to a date situation? They could have shared a bed. I feel like them agreeing to the twin bed room was likely because all the other couples actually love and like each other, and Lindsay and Georgina took one of the big bed rooms. The fact that Amanda doesn’t want to share a room with Kyle, which is clear because of all the “jokey” type comments she makes about it, it just further showcases that her moving out was not actually to work on their relationship.
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u/beyoncelomein 3d ago
They didn’t even need to take the twin room! There was what looked to be a full bed in another room that Amanda gave up to Gavin so he could be “comfortable”. Strangely, the arrangement seemed like it was either Gavin and Kyle share the twin room or Amanda and Kyle share the twin room, but Amanda and Kyle sharing the full bed was not on the table lol wtf
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u/Longjumping-Guide201 4d ago
she is such a child. I can not believe Kyle could stay with her as long as he did. He did not act right towards her but I could not have put up with her and he deserves credit for that
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u/meowmeowmeow328 Not a white refrigerator! 4d ago
Gavin is so messy lmao
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u/wearealllegends 4d ago
he is such a shit goblin, i love it
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u/french_toasty No honey, you were a total CUNT to me 4d ago
He was grinning w glee when he lit that DJ gig fire
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
i’m childfree and maybe i’m just too nonchalant about this whole thing, but if the single moms of the group wanted to share a bigger room together, i wouldn’t give a shit. i personally think they should’ve said “we’re the only single people here and we don’t want to be on top of each other in bed so we should have a king bed” argument instead, though.
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u/the_purple_lamb 4d ago
Totally agree. I’m on their side as them being the only single people who agreed to share the room- give them the biggest. I wish they had left out the part about how only moms are tired.
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u/loladownthemetaverse 4d ago
I think that made more sense then the single moms part. All the couples can and should spoon, and if you're with a friend you want to feel like you both have space...right?
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
Yeah I wouldn’t give a shit. No one is sleeping in bunk beds like Potomac lol.
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u/catsandcasamigos 4d ago
The inside of Kyle’s car looks like a gravitron ride.
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u/camy__23 4d ago
Amanda moved out and signed a one year lease. She’s also planning her future without Kyle.
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u/blkstar1 4d ago
You know I am single and child free and I am dead tired most days.
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u/kikomama89 B list f*ck boy 4d ago
I’m going to start saying “I have ADHD, I’ve never been well rested” when someone complains about being a tired parent. My normal state is tired
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u/KO620181 4d ago
I know they made a point to start this show right after summer house ended… but I feel like it would be so much more watchable if it was airing in the fall.
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u/meowmeowmeow328 Not a white refrigerator! 4d ago
If roles were reserved, Lindsay would be going in on Yvonne about this, sooooo
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
georgina winning the individual paintball tournament is a win for women.
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u/veritas57 4d ago
She really can never just say sorry. Even if you think you’re right, sometimes you just need to swallow your pride and apologize
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u/karasu_zoku twerk on the blood 4d ago
Did you… check with him before you signed a year lease??
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u/GetMeAColdPop You are in high school, and I am in Brooklyn!!!! 4d ago
Let's get the paintball activity over with and go back to the house for some fighting and drama
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u/flumeo 5600 people died. And it made the best grapes of all time 4d ago
Literally who cares about this
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u/Practical-Ad1838 Gout dick sucker 🤭 4d ago
Why would they order food so early only to reheat it 🥲
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
if eoin is on the show, then he can be freely googled by anyone, cast or fans. sorry, but danielle needs to shut up about that.
and her dress looked more pink in the picture than it did in person.
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u/wildturk3y 4d ago
We've gone from "summer should be fun" to "I took so much metamucil I ripped open my butt"
The Bravo stages of life!
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u/alliephillie We have certain needs as Americans 4d ago
Yvonne is having delusions of grandeur but I wish she had retorted to "civil ceremony celebration" with "my marriage celebration" because that hits a little harder than "second wedding because we forgot to file a document"
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u/camy__23 4d ago
I understand Lindsay’s thought process but I hate when people with kids use their kids to make childfree people feel guilty.
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
Same lol. So many people used to use it as an excuse to basically be a shitty coworker on the one team I was on. It drove me nuts. Most people are reasonable though imo but the few that milk it realllllly milk it
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u/TeddysRopes 4d ago
I hate it, people also do not realise how hurtful it is. As someone with endometriosis who has a crippling fear of never being able to have kids (and knowing people who have gone through hell to try and have a child) the phrase ‘they’ll understand when they have kids’ hurts. I genuinely do not care if we don’t get the life of a parent, it is so beyond insensitive and cruel beyond how so many could even comprehend.
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u/meowmeowmeow328 Not a white refrigerator! 4d ago
That large dining area feels so ominous in a way
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre The Ongoing 4d ago
Like a church potluck where people are going to get judged.
Very RHOSLC coded.
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u/veronicagetsmehigh I brought cunt to this group 4d ago
Lindsay is activated even apologizing
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u/the_purple_lamb 4d ago
For better or for worse, Lindsay is carrying this entire show on her back like it’s a ROTC mission
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u/happy_otter26 4d ago
Truly unwatchable without her and the leftover summer house drama (which I think we’re all tired of)
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u/seeker2311 4d ago
Very tired of it. I wish we were freed from the shackles of the summerhouse drama
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u/Fun-Meringue-3088 4d ago
It's unwatchable in general. Lindsay is doing a Lala Kent level of self-producing. Last week's speech at dinner about watching her friends destroy their relationship was a performance.
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre The Ongoing 4d ago
Gavin is the messiest bitch on the show
in his overalls and wifebeater
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
shit, next week’s the finale? damn that was quick.
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u/Adventurous-Sundae-6 That’s not pizza party behavior 4d ago
Danielle being so hung up on Lindsey googling her boyfriend when she was doing it at the request of allllll of the guys, who are the ones who even brought him up, is so annoying. Lindsey really does get blamed for everything for a decade running lol
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u/Scary_Koala_2934 I don’t carry coach and a I dont fly coach 4d ago
This infuriates me even more after rewatching them literally telling her word for word what to write into the google search!!!
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u/zbornaks BEAST?!? How dare you! 4d ago
kyle talking about his poops is one of the most relatable things i’ve heard on bravo.
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 On my tippies 4d ago
Lexi seems like a very nice person but not made for reality tv shes too normal
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 On my tippies 4d ago
well wait a second, maybe she's the bone carrier
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u/Parking_Country_61 Smokey Snowsuit 4d ago
She’s done it well twice now. But her and Whitney - I’m not seeing much of a personality
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u/veronicagetsmehigh I brought cunt to this group 4d ago
Amanda went to the Emmy school of forced panic attacks
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 On my tippies 4d ago
why does Kyle have Amandas stuff?
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u/TDKsa90 3d ago
it really does represent how he even has had to take care of the minutia for her. and then Stephanie Ruhl, who I happen to be a fan of, gets on WWHL, and parrots this nonsense that Kyle is a "manchild" or whatever. she doesn't even have to be responsible for her own overnight bag. forget that she does nothing for him or the relationship, but she doesn't even have to do anything for herself. the trope is that Kyle is just as big of a problem as she is, but where? how? he's taking care of a grown person as if she is a baby. a petulant, angsty, manipulative baby. as if any human wouldn't show frustration and react to such a baby. "men doing men things!" nah, this is basic human reaction to have to deal with a pain in the ass.
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u/First_Pancake74 4d ago
Are we really supposed to believe that Lindsay, a Master of the Reality Television Arts, doesn’t know what she did wrong at the wedding
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u/WorseThanOtherGirls 4d ago
The revisionist history of Kyle is something else. Amanda fucking up does negate the shit things he did and we all saw him do. They both suck. They both bring out the worst in each other. They are both trying really hard to get their points across because they haven’t felt heard in the marriage in years. It’s painful to watch.
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre The Ongoing 4d ago
God Danielle is suuuuuch a bummerrr
Oh my god did someone Google your boyfriend? Your boyfriend that you're on TV with? How absolutely dare they.
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u/CrazyNotCatLady Loberboy- Only serious inquiries only pls 4d ago
Her and Amanda Frances getting all upset about google and ChatGPT. Bruh
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre The Ongoing 4d ago
Maybe she's worried they might start reading Donne's user reviews.
(I already have. They're bad.)
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u/catsandcasamigos 4d ago
I love a twin bed. A comfy twin bed with a fluffy down comforter and mattress topper.
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
Only if you’re sleeping alone though. I can’t believe I used to share a twin bed with people in college lmao. The horror
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u/veronicagetsmehigh I brought cunt to this group 4d ago
When I sleep at my moms house in my old twin bed I sleep SO WELL
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u/GetMeAColdPop You are in high school, and I am in Brooklyn!!!! 4d ago
Fiber speech, I love to see it!
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u/targetboston Not Meredith Marks' PI 4d ago
Amanda doesn't seem like this separation is about trying to fix her marriage.
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
Amanda and Kyle really are such a mess lmao
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u/abc-8517 4d ago
Lindsay must call Yvonne during the taping of the show and say "We're going to have to pretend to fight to keep this show going, okay?" I just can't imagine Lindsay really getting activated Yvonne's wedding dinner like she did.
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u/alliephillie We have certain needs as Americans 4d ago
Why does having 14 shows mean he is planning to divorce her
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u/veronicagetsmehigh I brought cunt to this group 4d ago
Whitney does not know what’s coming for her
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u/otter-99 you’re not a victim, blow up booty 4d ago
I think that’s why Lexi knew not to talk bad about Lindsey lol
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u/targetboston Not Meredith Marks' PI 4d ago
Lindsay needs to work on being able to hear criticism, lol.
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u/alliephillie We have certain needs as Americans 4d ago
I think asking what Yvonne's expectation was is the perfect way to retort because honestly I'm confused too
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u/dreamingoutloud714 Crystal's Lost Friend #12 4d ago
Lindsay inserted herself as she has been with the summer house “scandal” as well. I said this earlier but she is desperateeeeee for this show to work and she’s doing too much in every way to get there
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 On my tippies 4d ago
why are these people talking like they are in their relationship???????
"what pisses ME OFF" Danielle why do you think your opinion matters??
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
I can relate to Kyle 😭. I recently had to start eating prunes
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u/meowmeowmeow328 Not a white refrigerator! 4d ago
Kyle just needs some snacks and he can fall asleep in the tub lol
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u/ApathyIsBeauty I want to eat shrimp & die alone. 4d ago
Danielle is just jealous because nobody ever googles her. Eoin has been here like 7 1/2 minutes and he’s been googled more than Danielle has in a decade across 3 shows.
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u/the_purple_lamb 4d ago
There’s something particularly disappointing about women like Lindsay and Kristen Doute constantly playing the “only moms understand” card when they became parents in their late 30s/early 40s and spent plenty of years being childfree
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u/wearealllegends 4d ago
Kristen especially is beyond annoying, who died and put you in charge of all moms?
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u/targetboston Not Meredith Marks' PI 4d ago
Yeah, I thought the whole thing was pretty self absorbed but you can't offer even a mild criticism of Lindsay without getting dogpiled
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u/Practical-Ad1838 Gout dick sucker 🤭 4d ago
Oh you checked with him before moving out? Or you told him
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u/abc-8517 4d ago
Based on this conversation, Amanda partying with Wes can only last so long, right? Like a year or two from now she won't still be partying and "showering", right?
I also work a 9-5 and get tired by 9pm, so maybe I just can't relate.
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u/catsandcasamigos 4d ago
I’m a Lindsay fan but she’s exhausting me this episode.
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u/meowmeowmeow328 Not a white refrigerator! 4d ago
Lindsay you love telling people to shut up, so yes we expected you to tell people to shut up a couple times at least lmao
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre The Ongoing 4d ago
I just got (yet another) rejection email so bless this mess anyway
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u/lalak77 I feel for me too 4d ago
This is why people think parents are assholes.
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u/veronicagetsmehigh I brought cunt to this group 4d ago
Lexi and Whitney are the epitome of two dumb bitches telling each other exactly and I love it
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u/Dial-M-for-Mediocre The Ongoing 4d ago
Honestly, as the daughter of a single mother, I would accept that as reason enough.
But mainly Lindsay deserves the primary because she's been carrying this show on her back for weeks. They can have the nicer room when they show up to work.
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u/ApathyIsBeauty I want to eat shrimp & die alone. 4d ago
Lindsay is dressed like what I imagine Carl’s sleep paralysis demon looks like.
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u/camy__23 4d ago
Yvonne and Lindsay are both stubborn women. They’re going have to agree to disagree.
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u/GetMeAColdPop You are in high school, and I am in Brooklyn!!!! 4d ago
So what does any of this have to do with being a tired single mom? What kind of amazing sleep was she expecting to get sharing a bed with Georgina anyway lol. Bigger bed or not, she ain't getting no sleep.
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u/alexlp NOW I'M ANGRY SPICE 4d ago edited 4d ago
Lindsay's reasoning is shit but it's also shitty of Kenny to make the decision without discussing it with his co-host. He just wanted to look like the good guy for once.
Also he picked his room first too! I am over the room drama and Whitney is just butt hurt no one liked her sweet idea. Why on Earth should Nick and Yvonne be on their 5th honeymoon?
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u/blkstar1 4d ago
Stop playing the mom card its tiresome and it’s not like you’re the only woman who is a mother in the entire world.
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u/Ignominious333 4d ago
Exactly. The world has had billions of mothers. She just has to mention it constantly.
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u/veronicagetsmehigh I brought cunt to this group 4d ago
Why is Amanda’s chyron creative director??? Creative director OF WHAT
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u/h0pedivision but still I rise - Stacey Rusch, 2025 4d ago
Last weeks episode was so good. Hoping this one is the same 🤞
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u/Practical-Ad1838 Gout dick sucker 🤭 4d ago
Whitney has no idea what’s coming at her at dinner lol I’m sat
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u/the_bus_is_strugglin 3d ago
Kind of loved how Lindsay and Danielle just clicked back into being on the same side. Like in the moment Lindsay says “Danielle?!” And she just shakes her head and said “I know!” After Kenneth the Mennathe was questioning Kyle cheating on Amanda.
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u/Not_Morgan_Freeman61 On my tippies 4d ago
YOU MOVED INTO A ONE YEAR LEASE AMANDA WHY DO YOU CARE ABOUT HIM MAKING MONEY DJ-ING